Tickle the certain little hollow spots on the bottoms of my feet<br />
while rubbing me a certain place and I'll pop in like 2 minutes!
take the safety off
i'm actually trying not to
Clerance Carter sang about it .
You flick your bean like there's no tomorrow. Looking at a picture of someone you're attracted to might not hurt either.<br />
I've heard reading Fifty Shades of Grey can set the mood, too, but bad grammar doesn't really do it for me personally.
For her or for him? Well, either way, be good at what you're doing? How do you be good, you ask? Practice! You can tell if it's working ba<x>sed on the response?<br />
Other option - for you? Experiment! ;)
Easiest is a clitoral ****** - get her wet, then stimulate till the finale. Start slow and build up. Figure out how she likes different touches as you go - just pay attention!
Oh, caveat - if she really likes something you're doing, that is NOT the time to experiment with something else, just keep doing whatever that is for a while!