Caress her personal hot spots, kiss her really passionately, kiss her hot spots, gaze into her eyes with a look of passion and lust mixed together.
i look at his eyes w/ a smile & tell him, " I LOVE YOU "...
Apart from 1001 creative options: help her to feel noticed, special, unique, loved, beautiful, desirable, interesting...
A friend of mine from SMU would walk into the room and spout "...anyone here want to make mad, passionate love? If not, I'm going home and take care of this in the shower!" Either his present love, or some other lady from the evening would ALWAYS walk out the door with him.
If your partner has no intentions, then they have no claim....just because one person doesn't care to enjoy, doesn't mean they have the Right to impose their disposition on the other...you may not want your back scratched but it doesn't mean you can't take care of your partner...if they really are a partner and not chattel.
And that wouldn't be cheating. If you don't want the pie, it isn't required to grow mold in the frig' if somebody else wants it. Too many people like pie and aren't getting their share.
a long passionate kiss is a good start
Foot rub being extra friendly and flirtatious sweet notes or wispers cuddeling lots of attention but not annoyingly kisses on neck and ears wrists or feet if they are clean lol
"TOUCH",,,him or her...
i just nibble on his ear and say dirty things to him :)
tell her she,s beautiful and sweet and say hi sexy and flirt and get closer .ask her dose say want to go in the bed room and make love.
Release extra pheromones. Oh yeah, forgot that happens mostly in my former galaxy.
It is a Star Wars reference to a race of alien reptiles, called the Falleen. They have the ability to release potent pheromones that can render members of the opposite sex, almost unable to resist any suggestion made by the person doing it.
They know... we are both sexual people.. silly things and everyday mundane things trigger it.