How do you unspoil an 18 year old who thinks the world revolves around her without violence
My god daughter is 18 and her mom just had major surgery 9 days ago and she refuses to help her. I was there taking care of her and her comment was I don't have to do anything because Paige is doing it all. Then tonight Rachel had to vacuum 2 rooms in her house because she was told by ash that she was an inconvience and she was frustrated and didn't have to do it any way
13 Answers to "How do you unspoil an 18 year old who thinks the world revolves around her without violence"
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There's the door , Get a J.O.B. , Your on you own Kid .
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take her to a homeless shelter. it's some sad stuff if it doesn't work then she's unrecoverable.
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give her the boot....out the door....welcome to life honey....shake hands.
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Enroll her in the marines
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aw i had so many options until the "without violence" part. just cut her off from everything. make her pay her way through everything
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Arctic if I call u an ADULT again will u ground me for life O.oLike (1)
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"I will hit you. I'll hit a child. I've done that before, but i'll punch you in the face"
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Is that picture a cat or a dog?
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that is a cat it is called a sphynx and he is hairless
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Well he's cute .but kinda scary too. Are you like that? :-)
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Have her be totally responsible for herself.
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I am hoping that is what happens to her after her actions tonight
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Without violence? hm.
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take her to the homeless shelter and leave her there, tell her she's not allowed to come home. she'll miss chores.
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and love the kitty too. My sphynx is my darlin baby :)
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tell her she has 1 month to move out.
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lol
STOP. that's it. she'll get it.Like (1)
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Just give her that look.
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Posted by BelleoffersEmpathy Feb 3rd, 2012 at 9:26PM
That sounds difficult especially since she is already grounded into that behavior. Ummm, try to expose her to another side of life but do it subtly so it doesn't seem like a punishment or that you're trying to get her to learn something.Lightchild has it right. Get her to be responsible for herself, enroll in a camp or let her socialise with people of different backgrounds who struggled a lot in life.
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Reply by Paige42986 Feb 3rd, 2012 at 9:32PM
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