I don't know how they feel when they do, because they always refuse! I have to slowly over the course of many haircuts and different hairdressers get my hair short because otherwise they say the same thing. "Aw, but your hair is so beautiful, how about we just trim off the bad ends?"
Sorry to be a hairdresser.
If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?
What is the sound of one hand clapping?