Are you/we upset over someone Jennie Anne?
If, I take your word on the matter...and assume that this Man that you are refrencing has become a straight out Arse...then it's safe to assume, he is self inflicting a grave punishment onto himself. It's an unfortunate thing that his innate Indiscriminating self centered behavior crossed into your world and negatively affected you (that behavior almost always has negative ripple effects)...I am very sorry for you.
Don't let one man close the door on so many other good men that exist!
Now that you know attributes of a Sociopath, don't fall for one again.
Immaturity, ego, deep seated resentment towards people, anti social, sociopath indifference, narcissism.
real easy, listen very carefully to people