My wife can relate to your question for because of her comeliness, cleavage and a behind that is worth worship most women's jaws get tight if she is around them long enough. My wife once told her supervising RN that she too would have a bad attitude if it took her hours to look her best before she went to a social gathering, the male doctors naturally took her side. Darling there have been times when my wife dresses down not wanting to cause offense for something she can't help and I made her stop this by showing her the positive side: There are 2 types of females the jealous ones all you can do is watch your back but there are those to whom you inspire to strive to do the best they can with what they have and will try to imitate you and that is flattery. It is the smart girls who befriended by wife when she was my gf because being "male struck" they knew that she drew dudes like fish to bait and they were there to take advantage of the residue because once these guys knew the score most were gentleman that were glad to settle for friendship with her. Though the scaly wags may scorn and denounce you for what you had no control over receiving female beauty will always have a redeeming value in itself and with this in mind the most powerful weapon you have is to practice a sweet humble and unassuming nature. My woman is so genuine that she still bushes when a total stranger tells her how pretty she is. Now you know what that does to the painted ladies.
you know, believe it or not i have to deal with this all the time as well only, my situations quite a bit different being a hermaphrodite, i ask this of my mom, your question, just yesterday, and many times before. i have a hard time dealing with this, people are so mean and with me the attraction often turns to confusion then to anger with the men, and with women often times as you say it is just a bitter jealousy, i havent yet figured out how to deal with it, and much as id like to i cant go around beating ********'s *****, male or female, but thanks for helping me to realize others go through this too, we should start a support group!
It really depends on the situation and what mood im in. I grew up with 3 older brothers so I learned how to fight. It didnt used to bother me to walk up to another girl and punch her right in the mouth. As ive gotten older I have learned to be more tolerant and not be so short tempered towards the haters. We each have to learn to deal with these kinds of people in our lives.
Sorry to hear that.
I was always a bit of a tomboy growing up. Playing sports etc. so I actually kinda enjoyed the fights but I was never one to start it.
I never had a gang of girls jump on me it was always one mouthy one in the group and everytime I called that one out the rest backed away
It also helped that I had my own group of friends that I knew had my back.
Im glad you made it through all your troubles.I dont know how I will react when I have kids and find out they are going through something like this.
As I have gotten older I look at the situations I may be getting myself into. Booze always lights a fire in people. Look at your sroundings and assess them. And avoid men with girlfriends in bars. I being serious here.
Wow! I am so sorry to hear about the total abuse you have been put through! That's awful. Women can be crazy jealous and there is not a thing you or I can do about it. <br />
I was hoping I would come up with a great solution for you but I can only tell you to keep being your genuine self. Be kind to others (as I'm sure you are) and hopefully all the haters will realize you are not the threat, their own insecurities are! <br />
Sounds like the low life people have got it in for you.<br />
Very hard to answer this question. All I will say is jealousy is very bad, and women show it more.