you had me at 'advantage'...
I never enjoy lying,and would rather not be put in any situation where to do anything else but lie is to give haters what they want,but it happens.
its not easy mars,but sometimes its suicidal to tell the truth,and when the decks fixed against honesty there is no other way to get what should be given anyway.good luck,do what you have to,because you have to :)
lie cheat steal. RIP Eddie
sounds like you are losing in your lying game