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'Are you a leg or breast person, Matt' My mother asked across the table. There was an awkward silence.
'I er dont really mind...'
She walks out the room and Matt leans over and whispers 'She did mean the chicken didnt she?'

OMG... I met an amazing guy on a Friday night at "the club". We had amazing chemistry and he was so attractive.. when he called the following Sunday night and asked if I would like to meet him for drinks, I agreed and chose to meet at a martini place by my house for 8:00.

When my sister and brother-in-law caught wind of this they made me extremely nervous, saying that because I met him at a club he was only out for one thing and especially took into account that we were having our first date at night. They went on and on about how he could be a rapist or a serial killer, and the dangers I put myself in. It was too late to cancel and with being nervous about it being the first date and terrified that he could have been the monster they portrayed him to be I stupidly allowed them to come along on my first date with him.. not a wise decision!

When I showed up he was dressed nice and was a really normal guy - my regret started to sit in as I knew my brother-in-law and sister were going to show up at any minute. I started to prep him but before I could even think of the proper words they walked up to our table, introduced themselves and grabbed extra chairs to sit at our 2-person table. He looked at me in shock -- like, what the hell! I smiled at him and again started to explain, when the waitress came over and offered to move our "group" to a larger table. As we were moving, I started to apologize and began to make up an excuse as to why they were there and how we could still enjoy the evening (really hard to muster out to a person I only met once before).

As soon as we were all seated at a table for 4 my brother-in-law would not shut up! My "date" and I could barely get a word out to each other without getting cut off. My brother and sister asked about what his intentions with me were, where he lived, what he did for a living, if he lived alone or with his parents, what did he do for fun, what his goals in life were.. Questions I should have asked and learned on my own and with time.

Anyways as the dates ended my "date" walked me to my car (awkward). I was going to explain better without them there and apologize a lot, but when we got to my car he asked me for a second date... although he strongly emphasized a-l-o-n-e. I was completely shocked but was happy that he was being a good sport about it all.

Even though the night had a happy ending, It was the most embarrassing beginning to a relationship that I had or will ever experience again.