How hurt would you be if someone you had been pm ing on ep was deceiving you...scale of 1-10?
20 Answers to "How hurt would you be if someone you had been pm ing on ep was deceiving you...scale of 1-10?"
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It wouldn't surprise me. That's why I'm glad that I don't trust anyone anyway.
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Agreed
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Me too. But them I know I can trust. I'm talking the general public here and out there.
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1 Becuase Im Like The HoneyBadger...I Juss Dont Give A Fvck.
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it would depend on how much u had come to like the person....
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I'm not someone that believes you can develop a true friendship online. It would only irritate me that I put in so much time with that person that didn't care.
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Agreed
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It depends on how attached I was.
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7 or 8 if I really liked them but if otherwise 0.
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DONT TRUST ANYONE!..but i cant help myself ...being human i tend to trust again!
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I think it depends on what they lied about . I would be upset if I was close to them, but then it's their loss got lying in the first place they don't deserve friendship
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Oh well..i always suspect anyways..i get a feeling its someone i know and go along with their story.
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It would depend on several factors and the depth of attachment. It's likely I (secretly) may have already suspected it. But if I had strong feelings for them, then probably a 9.
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Really. Wow! That's higher than I would ever guess.
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Well, ONLY if I was emotionally attached and had strong feelings for them. My feelings usually run deep, so, yeah. : )
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take it with a grain of salt until you find out either way but some people you just know right away if they are deceptive or honest.
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No one knows who anyone really is on here so it wouldn't bother me much.
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I find everyone suspect till they prove otherwise, so no it wouldn't bother me so much.
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I don't get too attached to people.
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I'd be hurt, but not surprised. There are very few 'true' people in this world, and a lot of falseness out there.
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9
Those I interact with I build trust with and a relationship. To get that far and then be deceived would be very hurtfulLike (2)
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Not at all....How old are you?
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49 and I agree...purely academic question.
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I'd feel sorry for them.
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2/3
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Maybe a little higher than I would go.
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Posted by TrustIsEarned 1 Dec 26th, 2012 at 9:09AM
On a scale of 1-10... are you a nurse? just kidding.
This has happened to me a few times. My level of hurt depended on whether or not I had developed a friendship with the person outside EP. There were a few people ON EP I thought were friends and then realized later they really only wanted to make sure I didn't block them so they could read my stories and make fun of me. I wasn't hurt at all when I realized that. There were a few people with whom I had developed a close enough relationship that it migrated away from EP; some that even migrated into real life. In all situations involving males, except one, it went disastrously bad. The kind of bad that you read about. And I was 9 or 10 in those situations. Online romances don't work. Online friendships present challenges just like real life friendships. The truth never goes away: people are still people and fallible, imperfect, messy and complicated. Even when they tell the truth, they can sometimes be deceiving themselves. I just try to be as honest and real a person I can be, own my mistakes, apologize when I'm wrong and enforce my boundaries. It's not perfect, but it's all I've got.
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Reply by originnone Dec 26th, 2012 at 9:12AM
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