it looks important when it's not happening the way when you want but later when it happens the way you wanted few years ago then it's no more important. so yeah i agree life plays its own gimmicks.
It does matter and It's very important to get what you want in life because, if you work hard to achieve it, it will define your character and shape you into the person you can become. Life can and may do what it wants to us but we don't have to accept it and we can change our life's situations for the better. No one has ever achieved anything by sitting there on a couch and waiting for something grand to happen in there life. If you want to fall in love and marry you have to get out there and find someone to love, no one is going to come knocking on your door. If you want a job promotion you have to let your boss or the boss of that department know that your interested and would like to sit down and talk about it. If no one knows you want the job they're not just going to offer it to you. If you want a new car you have to work for it and talk to a salesman about buying a car. Your not going to wake up one day and have a new car sitting in your drive way. Life doesn't work like that, we have to go out there and get it done and while we are working at life we build character and mold ourselves into the people we become.
As with all things in life you can't be afraid to gain anything in life if you're just going to worry about losing everything in life. There are natural losses. We naturaly begin to lose our health, we all have or will lose our parents but these are the things that are unchangeable and are a part of the natural part of life. If you lose your job, your money or your freedom all those things can be regained and regained ten times over with hard work.
I agree with calicuz,
A wise man once said...
"There are those that make things happen,
And there are those that let things happen.:
Which one do you wanna be?
Example? Look all around you, everything was made by someone actually doing something and working hard to make a creation possible. So many possibilities, but the possiblities depends on the person.
Thank you "HopefulKat" and a great quote to go with it. I will be writting that one down for sure.
Another excelent point about just looking around ones self. Sometimes I think people use the "life happens", simply as an excuse not to try or strive to achieve thier full potential.
It is all WAY UP over my head. Golly So philosophical today?