its totally their choice
I'm fixin to find out. Just sold my house and after 34 years going our own ways. I think I'm the only one that does anything, dishes, cooking sweeping, mopping......and she only does all the really important things . I think I'm important. I do, its the only way I'm sure that at least one person thinks so.
I am indispensable to me, that is all that matters.
I try to make myself fairly indispensable... and I think I am pretty successful.
Dispensible, for others, I be