Not very. He lives several states away from me.
Mind if I steal your answer verbatim, as it fits exactly what I was going to say?
Be my guest. :)
Only when they drag me in
too much i am beginning to think
Well, if 18 is really an adult or a big kid who can drive. Still completely supporting
As much as they let me be. I don't believe we ever stop needing one another, but needing someone doesn't make you insufficient - just hopefully the need changes forms from one of material support to emotional support and occassional guidance. One of my children I am very close to, the other is currently being very short with me... but I understand it is his issue, not mine, and when he resolves it, I hope we continue to be very close.