Depends on the man. If you're Italian you're automatically the latter.
I agree its not the same!!
Depends on the wiring of your brain, you can actually train it for proper efficiency those who haven't will only be manipulated by their illusionary impulses.
I don't see any problems with that. Sometimes we are and need to be regarded as sex ob<x>jects to get dem hankiez pankiez ;D