Distance yourselves from them as much as possible and realize that what they say is most likely untrue even if they believe it is themselves.
not to take things so seriously?
Ignore them even if they try their hardest to coerce, persuade, or manipulate you in some way.
Move 3,000 miles from them lol....yes I did do that but I also take what they say and do with a grain of salt, no one is worth getting your feelings hurt over
say i feel every ofended or hirt when you disrepect me like that.