Distance yourselves from them as much as possible and realize that what they say is most likely untrue even if they believe it is themselves.
not to take things so seriously?
Ignore them even if they try their hardest to coerce, persuade, or manipulate you in some way.
You can only react to what you let yourself react to. So, in other words, it's all in how you react or don't react to whatever antics your family members are trying to put on you. Don't sweat the small stuff and if you don't like what they are doing, put your right hand up, and wave bye bye ...tell them you are leaving the conversation. That should leave them speechless for a while. :) Good luck and hold your head high! :)
Move 3,000 miles from them lol....yes I did do that but I also take what they say and do with a grain of salt, no one is worth getting your feelings hurt over
say i feel every ofended or hirt when you disrepect me like that.