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seriously considering divorce, we cant stand each other. but we still do it once in awhile. is that normal? i feel like i cant go more that a month with out it.
blknurse blknurse 26-30 16 Answers Aug 9, 2012 in Intimacy

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Was once in a situation where I was without for about 6 months. After that long it's amazing how much impact the little things can have. Like a whiff of perfume or the sound of a woman's heels, absolute distraction.

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Just about :)

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The longest I went without sex was about 17 months. It was difficult at first but you get used to it. If it's on your mind, read a book, take a jog, etc.

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I whole lot longer than I can hold my breath. yea life. not. however, u know ur situation better than anyone. if it works, it works.

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Its been 3-1/2 years for me. Prior to that I went 7 years. You get used to going without. I can't be with someone I'm not dating.

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I can go as long as I want. $ex isn't on my Mind all the Time.

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it never sneaks into your mind? i could be minding my business and it just kinda grabs me.

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Yes it does,but when it does, if it is not convenient,I think of something else. I don't Dwell on it. If the opportunity arises I go for it. Until them I live my Life. It's much Happier that way.

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My relationship with my ex, while I was still with him, was pretty much over. He knew it, I knew it, we'd still do it. It turned into a thing where we were doing it, since we were both there, there was no more love involved. You're lucky.

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Yup, it's very normal.

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just feels weird cause i hate him outside the bedroom.

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LOL

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wish..its forever!!!

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As long as necessary

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Apparently 2 years...and still counting...

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good for you. i feel horrible, i lack self control.

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Trust me, it's not easy...I asked my gyn how much longer until I'm considered a virgin again. ;) But I've seen friends make terrible mistakes and I'm not willing to go there. Oh, and yes, this is all due to divorce.

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It's been over a month. Almost two.

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Quite long, as it turns out.

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