How long it take to FORGET the worst family i belonged to ? cause im hurt enough!!
3 Answers to "How long it take to FORGET the worst family i belonged to ? cause im hurt enough!!"
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I'm very sorry to say this, but you can't truly FORGET family. I don't know all that you have been through with your family, but I gather it's much worse than anything I've experienced with mine. However, family will always be family, whether you or they like it or not. I don't know if you're being deprived or just disagree on various family issues, but either way, you still need to keep a relationship open. Call them up, let them know where you are, and ask them how they are going. At least then, YOU will have a clean slate, and it's only them who can be blamed for their apathy. They might not even respond in a like manner, as apparently there is a lot of pain there, but if YOU have done your part in showing them that family is family, no matter what, then how they respond is their own responsibility. You are a grown adult, and as an adult you need to do what it takes to keep family together. You can't do it all on your own, but doing your part keeps you above reproach.
I hope this helped you a little. I won't pretend to know everything that you're going through, but I know that deep down inside, somewhere in the past, you longed for your family to care, but when they didn't, you eventually gave up and quit caring. I know I've felt like that in the past, but today is actually the day that I'm going to brave up and try talking to my Dad. I thought maybe I could try sharing a little empathy here...
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eventually gave up and quit caring.thats my status now .i never thought that i may be in that position with them,but its happened,and im the victim,by all of them .so i don have s.th to lose ,i lost every thing towards them every day in 20 yrs,now i don have any th. for them.they never ever show respect for my feelings .never ever cared to even ask my if im sitting alone on the dark crying hard,they never asked why.i got paralysis when im 14 yrs.cause mum emotional abuse.they did enough.maybe more than enough
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You can pick your nose, you can pick your friends, but you can't pick what family you happen to have. You're stuck with them.
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yeah, you can't wipe them off on the couch either.
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Posted by Blogger422 Mar 10th, 2012 at 3:53PM
You think you have the worst family. You should hear about mine. I am no longer talking to any of my family. They don't have my telephone number. They don't care what happens to me and I don't care what happens to them.
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Reply by celara Mar 10th, 2012 at 4:20PM
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