when he comes home sit on the couch with your nightgown eating chips and watch tv.
He's an ashole! Leave him!
This man will only make you miserable later on. Dont Saddle yourself with this kind of personality and break up now.
I think that if hes this uptight now, family and marriage crises will bring out even a worse side of him. Dont you think yelling at you is extreme?
Seriously, that's NOT going to go away. Hes selfish, and his stuff matters more than you do. BELIEVE ME, cut your losses.
I would do everything I could, to help my partner GET a new job.
I'm a lunatic and believe in people too much. I've carried for some time women, but I like helping those I've cared about. Unfortunately, when I couldn't afford the finest for them for a spell...I was alone. If you're genuinely trying and he genuinely loves you, he'll stay past the ultimatum. Perhaps he's trying to give you a boot in the butt with the ultimatum. Sorry if this is of no help.
If he says things like that, my 3 cents says its time to move on to bigger and much better...sans him. Oh and a side note, keep your head up high. If you try hard enough that fantastic career is just a beat away. Good luck. :-))
It sounds like your being unemployed translates to money out of his pocket. I mean, why does he even care?
You could get pregnant by him. Then you would be in control.