How long would you deal with your partner not having a job? Would you pay for their bills? Would You break up?
I lost my job 3 months ago. I admit the first month I did not look and after that is all I do. I get so bored and tired of typing and looking at this screen. He calls me and gets mad when I say I am taking a break from looking to eat or rest my eyes. He has given me a ultimatum that if I do not have a job by November we are done. I do not understand how he says he loves me but is so quick to throw me out.
6 Answers to "How long would you deal with your partner not having a job? Would you pay for their bills? Would You break up?"
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when he comes home sit on the couch with your nightgown eating chips and watch tv.
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better yet one of his nice shirts
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He's an ashole! Leave him!
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I tell him this also. I often want to leave especially when he belittles me and tells me to leave.
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I just do not have money to leave or a place to reside
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I would do everything I could, to help my partner GET a new job.
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I'm a lunatic and believe in people too much. I've carried for some time women, but I like helping those I've cared about. Unfortunately, when I couldn't afford the finest for them for a spell...I was alone. If you're genuinely trying and he genuinely loves you, he'll stay past the ultimatum. Perhaps he's trying to give you a boot in the butt with the ultimatum. Sorry if this is of no help.
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He could be I want to believe it. He always tells me if you do not like how I say this leave. He treats me bad now that I do not have a job he says so many hurtful things.
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If he says things like that, my 3 cents says its time to move on to bigger and much better...sans him. Oh and a side note, keep your head up high. If you try hard enough that fantastic career is just a beat away. Good luck. :-))
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It sounds like your being unemployed translates to money out of his pocket. I mean, why does he even care?
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It does take money out of his pocket but not much. I have asked and he says if it was you how would you feel? funny I have been in this situation and I would support him and help him find I job. I truly genuinely love him.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by laniferous Oct 24th, 2012 at 5:15PM
This man will only make you miserable later on. Dont Saddle yourself with this kind of personality and break up now.
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Reply by LifeOfAmanda Oct 24th, 2012 at 5:30PM
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Reply by laniferous Oct 24th, 2012 at 5:36PM
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