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I lost my job 3 months ago. I admit the first month I did not look and after that is all I do. I get so bored and tired of typing and looking at this screen. He calls me and gets mad when I say I am taking a break from looking to eat or rest my eyes. He has given me a ultimatum that if I do not have a job by November we are done. I do not understand how he says he loves me but is so quick to throw me out.
LifeOfAmanda LifeOfAmanda 22-25, F 6 Answers Oct 24, 2012 in Struggles

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when he comes home sit on the couch with your nightgown eating chips and watch tv.

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better yet one of his nice shirts

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He's an ashole! Leave him!

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I tell him this also. I often want to leave especially when he belittles me and tells me to leave.

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I just do not have money to leave or a place to reside

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I would do everything I could, to help my partner GET a new job.

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I'm a lunatic and believe in people too much. I've carried for some time women, but I like helping those I've cared about. Unfortunately, when I couldn't afford the finest for them for a spell...I was alone. If you're genuinely trying and he genuinely loves you, he'll stay past the ultimatum. Perhaps he's trying to give you a boot in the butt with the ultimatum. Sorry if this is of no help.

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He could be I want to believe it. He always tells me if you do not like how I say this leave. He treats me bad now that I do not have a job he says so many hurtful things.

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If he says things like that, my 3 cents says its time to move on to bigger and much better...sans him. Oh and a side note, keep your head up high. If you try hard enough that fantastic career is just a beat away. Good luck. :-))

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Thank you.

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It sounds like your being unemployed translates to money out of his pocket. I mean, why does he even care?

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It does take money out of his pocket but not much. I have asked and he says if it was you how would you feel? funny I have been in this situation and I would support him and help him find I job. I truly genuinely love him.

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You could get pregnant by him. Then you would be in control.

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I have my kids already. none with him he does not want any at this time he says and I don't want any with him. He has said that if I were to get pregnant he would abort it and kick or punch me he has never been physical with me even when he is pissed or I hit him. I do not want kids with him he has hardly has relationship with mine and his niece.

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