Being a straight guy who doesn't necessarily enjoy but has a "need" for real-life corporal punishment on a regular basis, I can say that I suspect the number of guys who either find this type of male/male discipline of interest to them or like me, actually need to be spanked by another male authority figure is probably much greater than most people would expect or predict. The reasons a guy would seek out spankings administered by another male are varied. In my case, this need stems from the punishments administered by my Dad when I was growing up. In my house, both parents used spanking to keep us kids in line. However, in the case of my Mom these spankings consisted of two or three smacks to my clothed rear end. But when I did something really bad, Dad would be the one to take dish out the spanking. All the "serious" spankings were administered by Dad, and that always meant a long, hard, bare bottom hairbrush spanking over his knee. I would have much rather had my pants and underwear pulled down by my Mom. I always thought that would be less embarrassing then having to stand there in front of Dad with my pants and underwear around my ankles and my hands on my head, my genitals in full view, as he lectured me and/or questioned me about whatever I did to deserve the spanking I was about to get. Also, a quick perusal of the spankingtube.com site backs up my suspicion about male/male spanking. The number of spanking videos in the category "male/male spanking" is much, much larger than pretty much any other category of spanking on the site. This tells me that there is quite a large audience of guys out there that are into getting spanked by another man, even if they don't want to admit it.
I believe that more men than women respond to spanking. In my experience (admittedly somewhat biased), for the majority of men who like to be spanked by other men, it's homoerotic (in other words, they are otherwise gay or bi). But by no means all.
Can't say for sure...but a lot of men like it. There's a whole unique set of energy between two men. I know of a man in his fifties who has a large area of his home devoted to this. The men that come to him seeking to get a spanking run the gamut, but many are straight professional athletes, such as big masculine football pla<x>yers. The like to be tied down and spanked. Men in general have a certain level of respect for other men, and it's a turn-on to be dominated by another man - and vice versa. It's great being a masculine man who sometimes submits to another masculine man and have your control taken away.
My Father was always the stern one in our family. My wife asked my father once to spank me when she was fed up with me being disrespectful. I was mortified when I showed up at his house and he took me into the garage a told me what he and my wife had talked about. I had to drop my pants and bend over a saw horse. He beat my *** with a thick leather belt for about 10 minute. I was screaming and crying my mom and 17 year old brother heard in the house. I was 36 years old at the time. I never did anything to deserve that again because it was so embarrasing. My dad never aloud us to speak disresectful to mom and I found out the hard way that he wouldn't let me do it to my wife. Im 50 now and he passed several years ago. My wife sought out a father figure to spank me recently because we both felt I needed a father figure to disipline me or at least assit her in following through with punishments that I deserve. He is very strick. My last vist I was sent for "acting like a baby". We arived and he made me ***** naked and wait in a corner.. My wife and him spoke for over a half hour. I then had to bend ove a chair and he let me have it with a paddle. It hurt so bad. Then my wife put me in a diaper then they sent me to bed. I had to stay at his house all day in bed. In a diaper. He would not allow me to get out of bed. Another male to spank me is good for punishing bad behavior. I like playful spanking but real ones are more effective when done by another male.
I have been spanked as an adult by older men. Some have not held to the agreement of respecting limits so I have to be careful who I communicate with and whether it is safe to meet them or not.
I am a st8 man and I like getting spanked by other guys. I love the humiliation of being bare bottomed over his knee. makes me feel like a 5 year old. These are spankings only and no sex involved
Yes, for me because there is nothing sexual about it. It is about the spanking. About having to bare my bottom, go over his knee and take a long painful spanking. I know when it is over I will not be able to sit for awhile and then will feel it when I do for several days after. So for me yes it seems more like a real disipline spanking even thou I asked for it
Yes I have spanked another man, but I prefer to be the one getting spanked. I look for mature men, at least close to my age but prefer older as I like to think of these as discipline spanking. One of the hardest paddling I ever got was from a 73yo gentlemen. He had me bare my bottom and bend over a table then he paddled me infront of 5 other guys. I tried to hide my face but they could hear me sobbing. When he let me back up they all watched as I made faces trying to get my pants and underwear back up over my sore butt. I had to stand up the rest of the night.
Are you spanked to tears when you go over the knee !
I have been spanked to the point of wet eyes but never full tears and crying
I have been spanked by my father-in law, once! I was about 55 years old at the time, and he was I guess, about 80. I have a post about the experience
I have fantasies about being spanked by another man.
I like getting spanked by other men providing that limits are respected.
Limits must always, always be respected. Lots of guys like to be spanked very, very hard. But any non-consensual spanking (yes, there's a grey area, but you know when the line is crossed) is assault, the equivalent of rape. Unfortunately, some guys calculate, probably correctly, that the victim probably won't report it. Which is why if you do this with people you don't know well, you need to meet them first in a public place, make sure someone knows where you are, and if you sense ANY doubt, don't go through with it. If possible, have them come to you or do it the first time in a motel. This is advice based on many years' experience. I never got into a really bad situation, but I did walk out of several, and I was always prepared to do so, especially the first time. If a top expresses ANY equivocation about consensuality, run.
I've been getting spanked by other men for the last 30 years. since my 20's. There's something about going over another man's knees for a firm spanking that is super hot. The feeling of humiliation combined with displaying my backside for punishment is quite a trip. Being bi, I've met many straight men who also are into it. I am friendly with a group of men, mostly gay/bi who meet regularly for group spankings. Having an audience makes it more fun.
I certainly like to get tied down and have my bare bottom blistered by a man. <br />
Im am reasonably sure that whether or not they admit it, most men have a liking for that, but no courage to pursue it.
I would never consider being spanked/paddled by another guy except for my best friend----Once a yr on our camping trip--each guy has a night to do a confession and get his naked butt paddled by the other--the confession is narrative and truthful--and the paddling is real---each guy has thier night and it is a custom of many yrs----I know it sounds weird---we are totally normal in every other way Of course no one else knows---
My best friend from grade school on---paddles my bare butt once a yr on our annual camping trip out in the boonies---We got paddled in high school football and then for a short time paddled each other once in a while---but then it stopped for several yrs. For yrs now on our annual camping trip each has a night to confess everything and ***** and get his butt paddled and then the other has his night---We confess everything I beleive , and the paddling and scolding hurts---but it is a good thing somehow---though I do not know just why-----We could always tell each other about anything so the 'confessing' part is very natural-----We are normal in every other way----It must be a throw back to high school Maybe the readers will think we are total weirdos
I'm a straight married guy in his 40's and about 2 years ago I had a strong desire for an older man to spank me for disciplinary reasons. At first I felt guilty since I have no sexual desire for another man but realized that it was the purist form of spanking. With a woman it is always sexual since I'm attracted to women but with a man its pure discipline. The guys I choose have to be older then 60 and know that no sex is involved.
When caught being naughty, dressing up like a little sissy in pretty panties and a frilly slip, deserving it.
I love being spanked by the person who I call daddy. He's not my real Dad, hes actually my lover but we usually do some roll play and during the fun he finds a reason to spank me and I let him. So far its been for fun but I'm thinking of asking him for a real spanking. I'd really like to experience a spanking where you can't just get up or say stop.
I have no idea how many men like being spanked by other men but the last time I checked the MM personals site<br />
spankthishookups.com they had over 17,000 individual listings. Ranging in age from 18 to 88!
no one seems interested in answering this question so I will post something and be the only choice for best answer.<br />
on a percentage basis I would think that it would be about the same from the bi and gay group compared to the percentage of straight men that enjoy being spanked by females ----
From my experience, most men have thought about this at one time or another though many would never admit it because they are afraid it would mean that they are gay.
This is a good question, which unfortunately cannot be answered anecdotally. I was struck by the responder who mentioned that m/m spanking was the largest subcategory on spankingtube... because ALL the other categories presume heterosexuality. Since male homosexuality is no more than 3% of the male population according to studies, this is at least a hint that spanking fetishes are a little bit (or maybe a lot) more common among gay men than among straight people in general. Then, of course, there are the men who are sexually straight but like spanking from (or to) men. Jillian Keenan says spankophilia (like other BDSM kinks, although I'm convinced that despite all the trash talk it's actually the most common one) ... is a sexual orientation. Maybe. Somebody needs to do a Masters and Johnson type serious scientific study to ask and answer:
1. What percentage of men are into getting spanked? By men, by women? Spanking others? Men? Women? Both?
2. What percentage of this group are gay? Bi? Straight?
Then the same questions for women.
The answers, I feel sure, would shock a lot of people. Because it's more common than you think.
My wife spanks me across her lap. Recently she's been wetting my bottom with half glycerine and half water. This increases the sting, and she needs only use her hand on me, like a real little boy spanking! Her paddles are retired. She hasn't brought me to tears yet, but I always come from my penis pressing on her right thigh, and from all the excitement. I love to get spanked! Recently, I've been wanting a male friend who knows I love to get spanked, and who will take me across his lap. I don't know, but I'll bet I will come from that experience too, even though I'm straight and have no other desires relating to men.