oh i have fantasy i thought would my spouse would be capable to do. Guess i was wrong. Still have that fantasy. but now I guess i see he won't do it. so it will never go away. And no i won't act on it unless he does it! I got a life time to get on board! LOL
I'd say 100% just because you're married doesn't mean you stop being attracted to other people.
I do and I'm sure my wife does, but no we haven't acted on them.
I think it spices things up a little to have imagination and fantasies.