Honestly I wouldn't. I'm too young to deal with that much bagagge.<br />
Unless the first wife was deceased maybe. But not if she was still around.
Don't feel right or think is right to raise someone else children. I will prefer no kids, I don't think I will date a girl with kids.
Adult kids that are moved out and on their own - yes. Someone with little kids - no.
Date? Sure. I dont know if id marry anyone
I have dated someone with kids and it was rough! My son didn't mesh with his sons, well, at least not the younger one and it was a disaster. That had to end real quick.
or do many People just use their Kids as an excuse when the marriage dont work?
Haha kids get in the way and suck the spontaneity out of a relationship.
There's a chubby chance in hell of that one, unless the kids are grown and live waaaay TF down the road.