my step-mom rubbed my back and told me to go on and climax and then we would talk. I didnt know she was home and i had not locked the door. She told me it as harmless self-pleasuring and from then on we talked about it. No shame----just positive, healthy and safe way of making yourself feel good
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Sweetheart, I could write a book about it. My parents made me feel horrible for YEARS as a child/early teen. 4 years straight, to be exact. It wasn't until I caught my hypocrite mother in an awkward position that the teasing stopped, and even after that, I still got mocked as if something was wrong with me. But, that's a story for another time.
I told my son to finish and we would talk afterwards. He was a little hesitant so I went and got him some baby oil and a towel. He finished (into the towel even) and we set some rules. He closes his door. I now knock. He will sometimes put a sock on his doorknob to let me know he is "busy". It helped though when I explained I do it and his father does too. I think he now has a safe positive environment he can relax in.
I told my daughter that there is nothing wrong with it but that it was something people do in the privacy of their own room. Never had a problem with it after that.
neither of us were embarrassed. I just tuned around and left the room
I told her when we adopted her she could talk to me about anything. she thought I was serious LOL
I have caught my daughter and my oldest son ************. actually more than once. I taught my kids it was ok to do. It was natural and enjoyable. do not be ashamed.<br />
I told them to keep it private until they were grown and if they wanted to share it with someone then that was their business.<br />
It is actually thrilling to see them.
After i caught my oldest daughter, I added a self latching device to my girls bedroom door so that it would always latch shut. The house rules were to respect a closed door, at the time hers was almost fully open when I went to ask her about her day. Now they get their privacy without having to think about it. They can prop their door open if they don't want to be private.
I wasn't embarassed, but he was after I asked if he was trying to kill thet thing.
I caught my daughter ************ on her bed her legs were spread wide she didn't see me so I let her finish and then she saw me and got a shock but I told her its only natural and that I do it to and I got her a towel to wipe her wet ***** . And that night I let her watch me ********** and now we openly do it .
Lucky. I wish my parents were like that
My mom walked into my room and saw me just as I climaxed and looked at me and said in disgust "really? " then she stayed just staring at me as if I was gross
i was caugth twice by my mother - the first time she raced out and the second time she stood and looked. She told me it was to embaress me so i would be more careful. Needless to say when she looked I stopped but at 16 remained hard. I was very very embaressed
I was caught a few times by my mom. When I was little she just told me to do it in privacy (my room or bathroom). When I was older she would just walk out of the room. Once though she found a sex toy I had (cyber skin vagina) she saw it looked at it and kinda rolled her eyes. My parents never talked to me about it and I wished they had, I think I have an addiction now...<br />
I don't think it is healthy to teach children that ************ is okay.
She just rolled her eyes?
ugh you are asking the general public something that really is a private matter...draw the line somewhere ....
intellects only then ! lol...
I got caught at 14 by my mother and the Priest. Needless to say I still have marks on my behind from the cane
In truth I can understand the reaction, for I was living under my mothers roof, and not abiding to her rules. Though as for the act, I had no issue with it. For as a male, we are always driven by sex. And truthfull- how can you resist the majesty of a womans body?
it did scar my behind, but not in an emotional manner
I caught my brothers daughter ************ when she was 15. I just told her not to be embarrassed and that it would be our secret and then I left the room
i have stories about being caught if u would be so kind as 2 read them