I know of two women that have had sex with over 100 men. They are "normal". They are not prostitutes...they have regular jobs...and regular lives...except they liked to have sex a lot at a certain point in their lives.<br />
Too many is the number when you regret one or more of them.
I'm a 19 year old female and my number is 9 men and 2 women. 7 of them were one-night stands, one of them was a 3 year relationship, and the rest were "friend's with benefits" and my current, new relationship. (Got number 9 tonight! :P) I don't regret any of them. Some of them I wish I haden't been too hasty (or drunk) to do, but I was always practicing safe and felt comfortable with the person I was with. I feel that sex can either be a recreational activity or a way to express love, and that neither of those is something to regret.
Yes, annaleea ,
I agree wholeheartedly.
totally agree! sex is the most natural thing next to drinking water. it just comes with consequences at times.
Around 200 men and women. That is def. too many. I prefer the people I screw to have screwed a lot of people as well. It's hot to me. I love *****.
You sound a lot like me, darling
None yet.... but I practice all the time so I will be ready.
200 plus and i am genuinely confused as to how it happened
I stopped officially counting around 40 but i have still kept track and am nearing 100. I am young, only 21 years old and sometimes i feel guilty/ashamed of it for several reasons. <br />
A majority of the hookups were blacked out one night stands. When i was 19 i found out i have herpes.<br />
I have always told my partners before hand except for a few times when we had been drinking and he was putting moves on me and I told him no but he kept insisting. I use to feel pressured into sex a lot. I told the guys afterwards and somehow they werent mad/didnt care. <br />
When i found out i had herpes part of me was almost relieved because i thought that way guys wouldnt want to sleep with me and i wouldnt be pressured. But that has not been proven to be true. I use condoms most of the time but i have had chlamydia twice.<br />
I feel bad about myself because ive never had a real relationship or been in love yet i have slept with so many people. I know the number wont matter to my future mate but it's a bit disheartening. <br />
Recentally i have put a lot of work into myself and have been cleaning up my dirty habits, but i still slip up fron time to time. Ive been dating this great guy who enjoys me for me and has never pressured me into sex but i have these guilty feelings from the past and i'm scared they are getting in the way and will continue to be a problem for me in my adult life.<br />
I went through a lot as a kid and it resulted in me being a promiscuous drunk my teenage years. Part of me loves being that sensual sex goddess and mistress-I made it my mission to be the best they have ever had (And I'm often told that I am) But another part of me is disgusted by the drunkenness and the low standards i had. I guess I need to forgive myself for that.
please don't feel bad about your decisions. STDs are very common and nothing to be ashamed of. I had chlamydia once as a student, my friend gave it to be and he got it from his ex. It wasn't a bother to fix it. Another ex of mine had herpes but we always were careful when he had it to begin with, but then I didn't really care, turns out I was immune anyway as I never got it. Drinking and having sex is fine, you're allowed to enjoy those things. Trouble is we live in a society where men are the ones shown to have desires and women are supposed to be passive. The only thing wrong is that you feel bad, perhaps try some counselling to build self-esteem, but I have been through the same as you and I know that I am a pretty decent person, I work hard and care about others and that is more important in defining how good a person I am - not how many people I have slept with or if I've had an STD. Love yourself and don't define yourself in this one way, its one part of who you are and something that is your choice - your body.
Very well said
The most important thing is that you realized what you did wrong.. I relate to you believe me I've had an std before now I'm getting treated for idk what I just had an std exam and blood drawn waiting on results I feel ashamed too a lot of the guys I slept with and gave oral to where one night stands I feel horrible about myself but you're not alone I'm with you and God is with you :)
I think that stds are something to be ashamed of.. especially if it happens more than one time.. I have had an std before and I feel ashamed of everything I have done.. not only my sex life but people that I have hurt, lied to, judged, etc.. right now I'm getting treated for idk what I'm taking med waiting for results on my std exam and blood drawn.. I feel ashamed but I have been praying and getting closer to God :)
Even knowing what you just wrote, I'd still sleep with you 😉 You're beautiful!
I feel exactly the same
never too many until you enter a "monogamous relationship" and continue to have other partners.
I'm 16 and mine is 9 I regret some but a hook up is a hook up. I'm on birth control I'm having safe sex. So what's the harm.? Sex is supposed to be fun isn't it?
I'm 26. Lost my virginity at 19. Got chlamydia from the guy I lost my virginity to.
I have now reached the number 62. I've never been in a serious relationship nor in love. Only one night stands and friends with benefits.
I slowed down a lot around 21 but the number keeps racking up and in terrified to tell guys my real number and I'm ashamed because it's usually much higher than people I sleep with or talk to
But you are having fun, there no harm in that, as long as you are careful...
I"m 16 and slept with over 30 guys. I'm not proud of it but i can't change my past.
Move on and enjoy life. Don't look back
im 18 and I've slept with 14 men and 8 were one night stands. I'm worried about would happen when I'm like 24!!!! thats a lot of people and i only lost my virginty when i was 15.
Take a look at my answer. Thats what could happen. Just practice safe sex and before hooking up with someone frel free to ask if they have been tested. Dont feel guilty about the number if yu didnt feel guilty while it was happening
Sorry about the spelling errors, on my phone
I honestly don't know. Last time i counted in 06 it was 50 or 55. My guess now is somewhere between 60 and 70.
I've slept with 5 guys. I'm 36.
I have slept with 50+. I don't regret it. I don't really understand the disgust that many people have towards sleeping around. Although I've been with more than 50, I haven't changed. I am still monogamous when I'm with a woman that I really care about. Also, I've never been an out of control guy that can't say no. I sleep with women because I like too, not because I am seduced. And another thing, it's not really about the sexual act, rather it's the whole process.,the laughing, teasing, meeting for dinner, as well as the sex.
I'm 19 years old and I've slept with 14 men
Wife 27 yo, has had sex with (approx). <br />
30 males and counting!<br />
15 females and counting!<br />
Husband 37 yo, has had sex with (approx). <br />
42 females and counting!
I have been married twice. And I am still married to the second. Im 34 and I have been having sex since I was around 11-12. I have slept with roughly 120+ woman. Most of them numerous times. I have had ********** and moresomes. I have slept with 4 different women in the same day. I dont necessarily have a number that definetly too high. But if you catch a disease you have at least slept with one too many!
I don't really know how many<br />
and I don't think there is such thing as too many... so long as when you decide to "settle down" with one person you are STD free, and if you aren't- your significant other is aware of that fact and okay with it.