sounds like prison :D pass
so shut up and remain miserable...how about not? lol! if you have a choice as to whether or not you can be happy, why not choose that?
read your Link to depression paper, Lany.
it is not about keeping your mouth shut it is opening your ears....Woman need someone to listen to them...
I know that. It works at work too. Learn to let things slide.
Not happy for the one keeping their mouth shut, only happy for the one not hearing what they do not want to hear.