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How many times do you forgive a "friend" for saying the worst thing that hurts you the most? My heart is still bleeding.

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Asked By: TireSoup4 46-50, F  6 months ago

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    dskdw25q9n - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by dskdw25q9n Nov 11th, 2012 at 5:10PM

    Depends on how difficult it is for you to find new friends, and whether you'd like to risk having no friends if you can't. I'd say dump them.

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9 Answers to "How many times do you forgive a "friend" for saying the worst thing that hurts you the most? My heart is still bleeding."

  1. LucilleLucilleLucille - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by LucilleLucilleLucille Nov 11th, 2012 at 5:19PM

    See Darci13's answer.

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  2. lalakhan90 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by lalakhan90 Nov 11th, 2012 at 5:14PM

    I always forgive..:))

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  3. Shuhak - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Shuhak Nov 11th, 2012 at 5:14PM

    I may be a fool, but I have forgiven my friend innumerable times for saying hurtful things to me.

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  4. Sammael - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by Sammael Nov 11th, 2012 at 5:12PM

    Kill the oxygen wasters for good
    For what they have done to you

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  5. remotelyhopefulidealist33 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by remotelyhopefulidealist33 Nov 11th, 2012 at 5:10PM

    I'm not sure. I think it depends. If the person just says cruel things to you over and over again then I wouldn't view them as someone I'd want to stay friends with. If the person knew they messed up, then apologized for what they did, I would feel a little better. If the person sometimes speaks before thinking, it would depend on the context. If the person actually intended harm or had a stupid slip up.

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  6. TireSoup4 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by TireSoup4 Nov 11th, 2012 at 6:42PM

    Exactly remote. You just described my issue preventing me from showing her the door. I hesitate to say what she said because I cannot type through the ocean of tears that would accompany the explanation. I believe you get the jest of what I am saying.

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  7. 330GTC - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by 330GTC Nov 11th, 2012 at 5:09PM

    Only you can decide

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  8. Pixie9912 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Pixie9912 Nov 11th, 2012 at 5:05PM

    i dont know,my heart is bleeding as well,my husbands constantly throws hurtful words at me....

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  9. TireSoup4 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by TireSoup4 Nov 11th, 2012 at 6:23PM

    I am sorry Pixie9912. :(

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  10. sadgirl2442 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by sadgirl2442 May 14th, 2013 at 9:52AM

    Depends on how bad you want to the friendship to work. Does she know how bad it hurts you or do you just kinda blow it off

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