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How long did it take?
l3lackmamba l3lackmamba 18-21, F 19 Answers Apr 27, 2013 in Dating & Relationships

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Once, three years ago. I've moved on with my life and am happy most of the time. But in the wrong circumstances I still get extremely melancholy and wonder if the hurt will ever fully heal.

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How long it takes depends a lot on you. EP is full of people who have decided to stretch it out so the heartache becomes a reliable comfortable part of their lives, like their partner used to be.



I say mourn for a while, learn about yourself, and then let time and new life events push the pain into a distant part of your memory.

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let time and new life events push the pain into a distant part of your memory. I like that

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"Let" being the important word. I'm in that mode myself so we'll see if I follow my own advice.

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Twice, I guess.

I am feeling much better. I'm not sure if anyone ever fully recovers. I think it's more like you end up with a scar. It heals over, but it's never the same.

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And scars reminds you of that person and the moments you had with that person

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Yes. And the pain.

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Twice by my wife and yes now recovered for the best.I have to thank her as she become the door to the divine and also have learned about what forgiving is.

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That's the reward of being patient

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It is not being patient my dear,it is the love that I had for her.

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I am on the mend as we speak. The time frame is embarrassing.

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That's not embarassing...there are people who never recovers

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I so hope you're wrong.

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Twice.

I have recovered with scars but am haunted.

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Scars reminds you a lot

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Agreed although we are all scarred in different ways.
Hopfully yours heal quickly.
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Helena xo

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Well, the last time that it happened is the last time that it is gonna happen.

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Too many and sometimes you never fully recover but you learn to cope and move on with your life.

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Twice....not yet

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But atleast ypu are hopeful! God bless you

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Four times. The first time, I clearly deserved it. The fourth was no-fault, an accident.

Recovered from the first three. The fourth.... I don't know. Time will tell.

It usually takes several months before the grieving is all over.

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How long has it been?

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Whew, that's complicated. First was over 20 years ago. Second, about 15 years ago. Third.... Still going on.... And fourth was technically a couple of weeks ago.

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Just once and not properly!

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Many. Not sure I will ever allow it to happen again.

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None. Other wise I'd be dead

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every time i've tried to open up, not many but still. i haven't recovered, i think i'm broken :/

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=c i feel you...they say true love lasts forever, i hope that doesnt refer to the pain it comes with... And am kinda glad you've found a question worth answering

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Three times broken severley. Each time took a couple years and a new lover to get over the heart ache

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New lover is a rapid treatment lol

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