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How many times would you get married and divorced before you decided, hey? This is not a good pattern?

Have just been having a discussion with a male friend of mine who is thinking of proposing again! I think he's totally insane myself. But I'll go to the Wedding. :) PS: I've only been married once :)

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    commongroundseekr - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by commongroundseekr Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:31AM

    I've made a promise to myself when I was young that I would never get a divorce, I promised myself that I would marry a good loving man who was a better man than my father I did just that, and we are happily married I love him with all my heart and I feel loved and life is working out for us. Marriage, it can work!

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  1. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:48AM

    Beautiful answer! :)

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19 Answers to "How many times would you get married and divorced before you decided, hey? This is not a good pattern?"

  1. Ladyapplegarth - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Ladyapplegarth Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:31AM

    once is enough....twice is worth a try....three is too much...and fourth is insanity...5th times...get a gun to shoot your brain off...

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  2. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:32AM

    This friend of mine is insane. lol

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  3. Ladyapplegarth - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Ladyapplegarth Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:35AM

    ahuh..marrying the 4th times? he must be so..... then warned him not to get another divorced and get married later on..otherwise you just hand him a gun...if he cant work out his marriages why get marry if you'll find yourself filing for another divorced?better to stay single then messed up with someone's life...

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  4. NedKelly1 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by NedKelly1 Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:33AM

    I have been married 32 years and I am in for the long haul


    If Mrs Kelly ever passed away I don't think I would remarry, but I would place the house into the children's name just in case

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  5. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:46AM

    Lovely answer Ned. :)

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  6. NedKelly1 - male

    Reply by NedKelly1 Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:48AM

    thank you

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  7. Gemzaayy - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Gemzaayy Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:32AM

    Erm Im only thinking bout marriage now... sort of... and Ive never been... but my parents got divorced and that affected me

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  8. NedKelly1 - male

    Reply by NedKelly1 Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:33AM

    try and reflect on their good times

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  9. Gemzaayy - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Gemzaayy Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:36AM

    :-)

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  10. mariusthered - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by mariusthered Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:31AM

    my mum and dad divorced so i have always said who ever i marry is stuck with me ,and if i had kids i would never put them threw the crap i went through

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  11. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:35AM

    It's too hard for kids. :(

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  12. Unquestioned - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Unquestioned Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:30AM

    I've been married 4 times, I have you in line for my 5th Zoranna. ;)

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  13. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:33AM

    In your dreams Mate! lol

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  14. ru4real2 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by ru4real2 Jan 9th, 2013 at 8:42AM

    Hopefully, we mature enough with age to accept the fact we have made poor choices. The past IS prologue!

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  15. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 8:49AM

    My friend is having a little problem with that concept.

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  16. bepuzzled - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by bepuzzled Jan 9th, 2013 at 4:52AM

    "once". I was married for almost 24 years and we grew apart from really all the wrong reasons. I loved being married but she became aware of my childhood past and thot me a monster too, like those that acted against me.


    I have no idea what those that keep getting divorced think about. It's a lot of work to keep one marriage afloat when the other will not help, I can't image 2-3-4-5+ marriages. It's if nothing else,..., an expensive hobby!

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  17. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 8:50AM

    Very, very expensive!

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  18. faeryflutterthe1andonly - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by faeryflutterthe1andonly Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:58AM

    Two failed attempts...and too gun shy to believe 3rd times a charm!

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  19. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 4:06AM

    Oh so sorry Sweetheart. But you may still find the love of your life. :)

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  20. faeryflutterthe1andonly - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by faeryflutterthe1andonly Jan 9th, 2013 at 4:14AM

    I always felt marriage was a sacred act, but those whom I married didn't. I always put God's law above man's law. :-)

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  21. StillRadioactive - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by StillRadioactive Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:45AM

    I'm working on divorce #2... I haven't completely ruled out the idea of marriage, but I'm going to be in a relationship for a LONG time before I get engaged again.

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  22. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:53AM

    That would be the smart thing to do. Good luck. :)

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  23. peza - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by peza Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:39AM

    About 20.

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  24. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:44AM

    If you can afford it .... go for it! lol

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  25. rolo65 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by rolo65 Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:37AM

    I've done it twice dear, it would take a real gem to soften me up to that again sadly.

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  26. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:45AM

    Sorry Rolo. :( Don't do it again.......

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  27. rolo65 - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by rolo65 Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:47AM

    I won't after the trouble of the last one my mom would disown me :(

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  28. assyrianpride - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by assyrianpride Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:36AM

    Once

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  29. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:45AM

    That's my answer too. :)

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  30. tikki75 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by tikki75 Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:34AM

    Done it twice. The only way I will ever get married again is thru a trinogomous relationship with 2 women.

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  31. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:34AM

    Twins? Maybe? Jack Thompson did in a fashion. :)

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  32. tikki75 - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by tikki75 Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:35AM

    That would be hot!

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  33. ianlarc - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by ianlarc Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:34AM

    If I get divorced if I ever do get married, then **** it its over I'll be convinced for sure in that event that women are bad and there will be no love left in me either as my heart will have died in that regard.

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  34. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:46AM

    Hey, it takes two to tango, and two to share the blame. :)

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  35. sinathamby - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by sinathamby Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:33AM

    No matter how many times one gets married, one always find the same type of partner.Maybe the body is different but the minds are the same.

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  36. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:47AM

    Hmm...mind games. :)

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  37. therealxtina - 26-30 years old

    Posted by therealxtina Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:31AM

    Once

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  38. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:51AM

    Once is enough. :)

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  39. Monkeylust - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Monkeylust Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:31AM

    Zero. I've already decided hey, that is not a good pattern.

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  40. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:36AM

    That just may be the way to travel. :)

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  41. Monkeylust - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by Monkeylust Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:51AM

    Some people decide they want to get married without a specific person in mind. I've seen it happen. In sailing, as well as other things, there is a saying, "Always learn from the mistakes of others. You won't live long enough to make them all yourself."

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  42. linklock - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by linklock Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:30AM

    Saw that one way, way, before so I never did.

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  43. Zoranna - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Zoranna Jan 9th, 2013 at 3:34AM

    Never married? Oh. Okay. :)

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