They don't all that much, but if I'm with someone who is constantly beating themselves up over how they look, it gets old. I used to be like that, but now I realize that how you look matters much less than what kind of person you are.
looks matter. but that doesnt mean that i want a muscly playgirl model with an 8" ****. there's some specific things i like in a guy's appearance, and what makes him a "perfect 10" to me and probably only me. things i like in a guy most girls would probably think is silly.
Well...looks are not a selling point for me....his character is...<br />
Having said that, I think we are all initially attracted to something physical, aren't we? Whether it be a smile, or a gait...something catches your interest....sometimes (if you're online) the attraction is found within the written words....but it still causes a physical reaction....so the initial attraction is something physical...<br />
Personally, I've been drawn to dark haired men my whole life and preferably tall...not sure why...but I didn't go looking for that in particular....(at least I don't think I have) but when perusing, I am mostly attracted to those physical attributes...
Do you want ugly children?
I have a very handsome and intelligent 21year old son. He is the finest man I have ever met and I have travelled.
I do too but he is crazy on top of being smart and hot looking. He needs to stand straight and dress right. There is more to being hot looking and smart than you think.
I am hot looking and smart and I know.
The best looking woman I ever dated was the one that cheated on me. Go figure.
It helps to have that attraction, but as the saying goes "looks fade"
Looks matter somewhat to me. It tells me about the person.<br />
For instance, if a person is not wearing makeup or dress appropriately on a night out. That to me, she is not even trying and is just plain lazy.
If the inside is great then nothing else matters