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How much does looks matter to you when choosing someone for a relationship ?

Honestly. I ama guy that does admire beauty in a Woman. She doesnt have to be drop dead gorgeous or a perfect 10. But I have this certain look that appeals to me in a very strange way. So I am attracted to a specific type if you dont mind me saying so.
I would rather it be that way. I dont like to substitute or deny myself when it comes to
what I want in a relationship. After all, it is a choice, right. What about you ?

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    SpiritOfTheRabbit - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by SpiritOfTheRabbit 1 Oct 10th, 2012 at 11:01AM

    They don't all that much, but if I'm with someone who is constantly beating themselves up over how they look, it gets old. I used to be like that, but now I realize that how you look matters much less than what kind of person you are.

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  1. meh3 - 18-21 years old

    Posted by meh3 Oct 10th, 2012 at 12:26PM

    looks matter. but that doesnt mean that i want a muscly playgirl model with an 8" ****. there's some specific things i like in a guy's appearance, and what makes him a "perfect 10" to me and probably only me. things i like in a guy most girls would probably think is silly.

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  2. Babydoll42 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Babydoll42 Oct 10th, 2012 at 11:10AM

    Well...looks are not a selling point for me....his character is...

    Having said that, I think we are all initially attracted to something physical, aren't we? Whether it be a smile, or a gait...something catches your interest....sometimes (if you're online) the attraction is found within the written words....but it still causes a physical reaction....so the initial attraction is something physical...

    Personally, I've been drawn to dark haired men my whole life and preferably tall...not sure why...but I didn't go looking for that in particular....(at least I don't think I have) but when perusing, I am mostly attracted to those physical attributes...

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  3. monkeysintheattic - 36-40 years old

    Posted by monkeysintheattic Oct 10th, 2012 at 11:03AM

    Do you want ugly children?

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  4. zonus - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by zonus Oct 10th, 2012 at 11:04AM

    Do you ?

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  5. monkeysintheattic - 36-40 years old

    Reply by monkeysintheattic Oct 10th, 2012 at 11:06AM

    I have a very handsome and intelligent 21year old son. He is the finest man I have ever met and I have travelled.

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  6. jesscharnelle - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by jesscharnelle Oct 10th, 2012 at 10:58AM

    Looks don't matter to me at all, but it would be nice to date someone that fits the guy I sometimes dream of. If I happen to fall in love with someone though it'll be with who they are, not what they look like. That's why looks don't matter much.

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  7. cpgnatly - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by cpgnatly Oct 10th, 2012 at 10:58AM

    The best looking woman I ever dated was the one that cheated on me. Go figure.

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  8. zonus - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by zonus Oct 10th, 2012 at 10:58AM

    Ouch.

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  9. ablford36 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by ablford36 Oct 10th, 2012 at 10:57AM

    It helps to have that attraction, but as the saying goes "looks fade"

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  10. Dot11 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Dot11 Oct 10th, 2012 at 10:57AM

    Looks matter somewhat to me. It tells me about the person.

    For instance, if a person is not wearing makeup or dress appropriately on a night out. That to me, she is not even trying and is just plain lazy.

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  11. zonus - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by zonus Oct 10th, 2012 at 11:00AM

    Hmmm.

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  12. Whateverrrrr - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Whateverrrrr Oct 10th, 2012 at 10:56AM

    If the inside is great then nothing else matters

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  13. zonus - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by zonus Oct 10th, 2012 at 11:00AM

    Cool.

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