it has to surpass the "duh" factor...
When you get caught,lol.
Very obvious if i'm thinking the same way as you are
Well being married, that is quite obviously subtle messages and tell tale signs.
It has to be obvious
For me....pretty obvious...like right in my face
That depends on the person.
If it's starring me in the face- it's obvious. Sometimes tho, even tho it's right in my face, I don't want to believe it.