it has to surpass the "duh" factor...
When you get caught,lol.
For myself, very, very obvious.
Very obvious if i'm thinking the same way as you are
Well being married, that is quite obviously subtle messages and tell tale signs.
It has to be obvious
For me....pretty obvious...like right in my face
That depends on the person.
For some, it has to slap them in the face before they get it. It's like some are totally clueless.
Apparently nothing's ever obvious enough for some people on here.
In my face ... to make it obvious. Or spell it out.
If it's starring me in the face- it's obvious. Sometimes tho, even tho it's right in my face, I don't want to believe it.