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How often do you fight with your partner?

I seem to struggle daily with mine.
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yes....lately struggling daily! it seems I am under constant scrutiny!
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 1:48AM
only as long as it takes for me to say im sorry... lol
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 7:03AM
since he left... never! It's best he left as I believe I am just starting menopause.. this just blows and why is it so damned hot in here?
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 5:20AM
We don't plan our misunderstandings in advance so they tend to occur at random.

That's not to say there aren't usually common themes or motifs running through them.

My girlfriend says that I can be "Mr Defensive" sometimes. That I take exception to something where no slight was intended.

In some cases, that's true.
In other cases, I just think she needs to stop poking me with a stick, metaphorically speaking.
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 7:02AM
One year and we've NEVER FOUGHT. We talk it out like civil humans... a novel idea and a new one to me..
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Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 10:02PM
never I am single. and I sometimes get lonly but I have no drama.
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Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 10:03PM
The little agreements i don't count..big ones maybe once a month.
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Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 10:04PM
About once a week, small spats which are over quickly. We don't live together though but see each other about 5-6 days a week.
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Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 10:03PM
I don't fight with my man, we agree to disagree. We decided a long time ago that we are not going to waste our energy on fighting, we save our energy for well... more pleasurable things!
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Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 10:07PM
We have rarely fought. We're both too democratic in the way we deal with differences, I think.
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Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 10:09PM
Been married too long to fight. There's rarely anything worth fighting over.
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Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 10:09PM
if we don't talk we wont fight
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Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 10:48PM
Depends on what you mean fight. We were both 40 when we got married, second time for each. Both had been divorced for a long time. We were used to having our own way, she as a single mom, and me doing what I did. We cared enough for each other we were willing to try again.
We only fought early on in our relationship. There was only one thing I couldn't stand, banging things. slamming pots and pans, doors, dishes. I lost my temper a few times and showed her how to really scream and bang things. $380 later, we don't have that problem anymore. New stove top, new closet doors in the hallway, new trim for the door, new door between the house and the garage.
I didn't fix any of it until she asked me too, she gets mad about something now, we talk. We haven't had a fight in a long time, about 16 years now.
She still gets mad, I still get mad, but we talk now, we don't throw temper tantrums.
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Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 10:12PM
NEVER!....I do not have one!!
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Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 10:17PM
never!! if I did I would be some where else
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Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 10:17PM
I am grateful that my partner and I are both nerds, geeks, or freaks, whatever you want to call it.. and agree on just about every single thing lol

we have only been married for 2 years.. but have only fought twice.. and I was pregnant

the rest in petty bickering which is settled fast with teasing each other about being mad.. like playing violin music lol or him clowning me about being super emo.
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Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 11:22PM
I'm in perimonopause...I'll let you do the math......
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 9:53AM
Not often, but we have our fair share of disagreements...we always resolve them though, neither of us likes leaving them unresolved :)
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Posted Sep 26th, 2009 at 10:22AM
every frazing day a marrage made in hell
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