Find a guy that likes you in a tank and shorts. I wear lingerie because I like wearing it not because my husband likes me to wear it. You've got to be comfortable being you.
Go for comfort most nights and sporatically change it up several times a month.
Wear it when you want to. Simple as that. If you're feeling particularly playful/generous, go for it! If you want to wear a tank and shorts, there's nothing wrong with that. Whoever you're with is lucky to have you.
tank and shorts sounds very sexy.. but variety is always nice.
Depends on what your guy wants, I personally prefer my women nude in bed.
Only when you want to surprise him :)
Only when you want to. Just be yourself and wear whatever you're comfortable in, be it a tee and panties, pajammas or whatever.
when your boy friend starts to drift away
I think lingerie's over-rated anyway.
You shouldn't have to wear it at all.
Are you trying to tell me that you are fully clothed while having sex?
As often as you feel like..comfort is of utmost import.