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JustBernieGirl JustBernieGirl 31-35, F 16 Answers Dec 14, 2011

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At least twice the age of the guy you are pouncing on, or 45, whichever is applicable

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That's what I thought!

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I am in this situation. I look 23 but actually just turned 30. I am constantly approached by guys ages 20-25 on a daily basis. Am I a cougar? My past relationships the guys are at least 3-5 years

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40+

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I like your answer.

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30 qualifies lol i'm 30 too

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No it doesn`t...I am still a spring chick *stomps her feet like a 2-year-old.*

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Half your age would put you in the cougar category.

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But it`s not legal to date men half my age. Besides, I CAN`T STAND teenagers...they never know when to shut up!

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That's the truth!

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I say 35+

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I agree...but you know, when I turn 35, I am going to be singing a new tune :)

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8 years older than the guy you seek.

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Oh, I see. So I am old enough to be a cougar :(

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Thats how I see it. it is about the age difference. If your 28 and want to date an 18 year old, and are only interested in 18 year old then I think you are a cougar. I think it is about deciding that is the age group you want and excluding others as well. If you just happen to meet an 18 year old and a relationship develops maybe you are not a cougar, make it a habit then maybe you are.

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Well, what if you have a habit of falling for guys older than you...what does that make you?

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It makes you a person who falls for older guys. It used to be called a Gold digger, but that was because older men tended to be more secure financially. I am not sure it applies now.
This is just about a label that is put on a person based on thier choice of relationships. Older men who go after younger women are called "cradle robbers". I think the cougar sounds a bit nicer if you have to accept a lable.
Regardless of who you are attracted to I think it is wise to reflect on why you are attracted that way. There is something superficial about starting your dating search based on age, boob size, hight, ethnicity, bank account etc. Truth is people tend to be very superficial. Imagine if people really did date based first and formost on personality. They say they do, but the truth is personality is way way down the list.

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I love for cougar hit on me and play with me for once wouldnt matter of the age lol

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*facepalm*

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first you're a kitty then a cougar, eventually you just might end up being a crazy cat lady.

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I see...

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Cub Panther Cougar and Silverback.. but not sure when each one starts

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No silly goose, the OTHER kind of cougar.

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Depends on how young the guy is

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I am trying to prove I am too young to get junk mail for cougars, you aren't helping...LOL

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Lmao, oops sorry!

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