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How old is too old?

To me age is nothing but a number but does it look bad when a 20 year old is going out with a 35 year old? I love older men i find them so sexy and intriging!! The problem is that my parents got married and had me when they were really young! So right now they are 37&38, is it weird that i go out with a man that's almost their age?
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As long as the two of you don't see a problem..screw what everyone else thinks. You're only as old as you feel..unless you are 115..now that's old.
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Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 5:19PM
hmm, my husband is 12 1/2 years younger than I am. My best friend is 28 years old now, and her husband is now 50 years old-and they have a three year old daughter too. I think the age difference is just a number-but I have to say that I think age does add more life experiences. Then again, there are people younger than me who've had more experiences in life than I have had. People have said that my husband looks older than I do-and acts older than I do too. I don't think love has an age limit.
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Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 5:33PM
I believe that as long as they are both over 18 I don,t care,,,,but any younger and I have troble with that crap,,,,if its a man an he falls in Love with say a 16 or 17 year old,,,then be a real man and want till he turns 18,,,and if she still wants you than fine,,,My sister married someone 40 years older then her,,,and they loved each other,,,than one time I meet this guy and girl she had just turned 18,,,and he had been waiting for a few years,,,,he married her,,,and their love is so majical,,,because he respected her and did not try and get his way ,,,there is nothing wrong with that,,,I mean you can try and talk her out of it,,but its their will from that point on,,,,and it is selfish for other to interfer with their hateful snubing that goes on over these issues,,,Love is what is important,,,and teach your children what real love means ,,,like no sex untill you get married,,,this is something speical and scared ,,,men over use their tool,,,to the point of abuse,,,meaning its just another piece of xxx,,,,so get a clue will you,,,and repect the Goddess,,,don,t take advantage of their young minds that do not have the experence to know what they really want,,, Give them room to grow,,,and know when to let go,,,,Love and Light Mary
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Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 5:18PM
oh. "you" mean In A Relationship.
(at first "I" thought you were simply asking "an Age question".)
IF "both" People are OVER "the Legal Age of Consent", and they BOTH 'Feel Strongly' ABOUT each other, AGE "SHOULD NOT" be af factor (in the relationship).
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Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 5:11PM
too olf depends on you. a 20 year old is no child, and can make a decision in his/her own best interest. the same for a 35 year old. but i have no idea what they would talk about. LOL
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Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 5:09PM
LOL @ mzdivine. =p
I agree with luckypickle. =)
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Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 5:15PM
no, but i always wonder if the 20 year old has the intellect of the 35 year old or the other way around? i look at folks in their 20s like children cuz i have two of my own in that age range... i say do whatever makes u happy... i was just wondering.
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Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 5:22PM
Age is just a number . And I know many a couple with quite a few years difference between them that are as happy as clams .. As long as each person is an Adult, live and let love I say
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Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 5:27PM
Depends on the 20 yr. old. Depends on the 35 yr old. As long as the younger is being treated right.
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Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 5:07PM
meaningless if you love each other ... but if it bothers you what other people think ... then it's a problem.
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Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 5:03PM
99.
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Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 5:03PM
Hmm, borderline, but then I wrote quite a lot about someone who was 33 years younger than her partner the other day so I'm done with wagging the finger.
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Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 5:03PM
That's ridiculous!

Can you imagine a 5yo going out with a 20yo?
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Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 8:47PM
Look bad to whom? Heavens no. Quit thinking about what people think. It is what YOU and your partner think strictly.
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Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 9:16PM
If the age difference is more than 115, it's too old.
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Posted Sep 21st, 2009 at 12:40AM
I always say that's why I can't find a man my age cuz they are all dating 20 yr olds lmao just kidding!!
If you care about him and you are an adult go for it just remember that I may have to start dating men your age soon! lol

BTW I'm 34
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