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Antiquarianbutterfly made a post about Christmas and Pagans...Many pointed out the flaws of his narrative and I went further to explain where he was flawed.....Yet, this is what really strange people do, that keep them, well, strange...Rather than look up what I said, they block....So tell me, what does a person learn or why bother to post a question (his was a statement) if they discover they were wrong and refuse to even entertain the notion they might just not be correct and then to block...??? I see this a lot here....Why do you think people do this? are they spoiled brats or,,,,,???????

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    Cheree - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Cheree Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:48AM

    EP is not a schoolhouse where you teach others...it's a nuthouse where you learn to avoid others, while still being witty and charming...lol

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  1. MrNash - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by MrNash Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:51AM

    haha...

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  2. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:53AM

    Ha! Perfect! hahaa...Thanks!

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  1. BamPow - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by BamPow Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:44AM

    I don't see the point of even being on here if you're going to block people who simply disagree with you. I'd rather hear other points of view, because sometimes I can actually gain perspective that way. The person who thinks they know it all is probably the most ignorant one in the room, and I think that applies to someone who blocks someone else for simply disagreeing with them.

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  2. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:54AM

    And lord knows you and I disagree a great deal and we don't block each other! Sheesh, what's the point then? Thanks for responding....!

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  3. Tgilly - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Tgilly Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:41AM

    it takes all sorts to make the world go around.

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  4. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:44AM

    Agreed

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  5. johnnywillsave - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by johnnywillsave Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:42AM

    Some people can't stand to be wrong. I think everyone should have an open mind and take what help they can before this world gets in to much more of a mess.

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  6. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:44AM

    Yes, One would think, Thanks!

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  7. johnnywillsave - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by johnnywillsave Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:45AM

    No problem sir!

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  8. guidospeedo69 - 70+ years old - male

    Posted by guidospeedo69 Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:41AM

    Sounds like a typical liberal response to me. LOL Some people on here pontificate just for validation and if you offer a different view, they don't like it.

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  9. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:45AM

    Exactly my thoughts!

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  10. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by chimbie88 Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:40AM

    you just made a huge question/post about a person who you named... when you point a finger you find 3 pointed back at you...

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  11. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:44AM

    Is that your answer?

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  12. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by chimbie88 Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:44AM

    oh crap... no. my answer is that they can be very shallow.

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  13. angelicsmiles - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by angelicsmiles Nov 26th, 2012 at 1:10AM

    Something very similar happened to me. Someone asked a question about their best friend becoming a bridezilla and becoming conceited with her because she was single. I asked her why would she think its a personal target to her as opposed to this friend just being in a dreamy bubble of happiness? Sometimes people who are ecstatic in their own lives do not realise they can side away the other people in their lives and my question was not to offend. Of course, I was blocked because I did not join in the hate rant of her bridezilla friend. :D. lol.

    I think, they want attention of a certain kind, and if what they say or ask is questioned, they can not handle it. And they do not want to be put on the spot to question their own words and actions.

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  14. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 1:20AM

    WOW...Then why ask? Of course we know....If you don't agree - as you said, they can't handle it....Sheesh! Thanks for responding...

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  15. angelicsmiles - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by angelicsmiles Nov 26th, 2012 at 1:22AM

    Actually, ty for asking this. It was bothering me, until now. :D

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  16. reigirl - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by reigirl Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:53AM

    I understand your frustration. Some people cannot see past their own stubborn bigotries; as we age, it is important to try to look through different lenses instead of throwing tantrums and blocking people.

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  17. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 1:22AM

    @ reigirl - Agreed....The best part was in his "statement" he's calling OTHER "silly" and Brainwashed...WOW! But thanks for responding...

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  18. reigirl - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by reigirl Nov 26th, 2012 at 1:24AM

    You are welcome. I've had one ep member try to ream me, but then again, he is a fickle, shallow man who treats many people that way. Oh well, his loss.

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  19. icewolf1989 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by icewolf1989 Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:52AM

    I wouldn't say shallow, per say maybe stubborn and ignorant. If your wrong about something and its pointed out you should in turn take what you learn and grow yourself. The blocking **** should be used for people who are getting rude and inappropriate comments and messages. And per the user who claimed the whole pointing finger crap out. By using someone's name in a point is validation for the point. Many people can go and view first hand.

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  20. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 1:23AM

    Stubborn is a good word....! you're right....Thanks!

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  21. TrackyDaks - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by TrackyDaks Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:49AM

    Serial blockers should maybe be banned from EP. Defeats the purpose of the site for most.

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  22. BamPow - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by BamPow Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:52AM

    Eventually, they'll block so many people that they'll become an island unto themselves.

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  23. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:52AM

    Serial Blockers? hahaha! Outstanding! And yes, my thoughts exactly! I've made posts that were inaccurate and thanked them for correcting my error...what's the big deal? But love that term! haha! Thanks

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  24. InnerBeauti - 36-40 years old

    Posted by InnerBeauti Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:45AM

    Some people just don't like to be corrected, therefore they will never learn anything new

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  25. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:54AM

    Exactly! I've made errors in my posts...People have corrected me and I thanked them after confirming what they found! Thanks for responding....

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  26. extracaliber - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by extracaliber Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:43AM

    And it's not shallow to blast on someone by name/username like you just did?

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  27. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:55AM

    Nope...Not at all, that's called factual statements...That your answer?

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  28. extracaliber - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by extracaliber Nov 26th, 2012 at 1:02AM

    You posted one side of an argument and attempted to get a reaction more than actual advice. I can't even look up the initial question-in-question to verify any of your "info." So yeah, it's kind of bullshit. Those aren't "factual statements" until there's proof.

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  29. Agonystick - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by Agonystick Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:40AM

    Lots of times people are asking questions to confirm their own theories/opinions.

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  30. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:46AM

    Ah good point and I can understand that but that would mean if they do, and a flaw is detected, one would think they would correct the flaw, no? Maybe even man up and say...."Thanks"

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  31. Agonystick - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by Agonystick Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:48AM

    Yeah it takes some time and debate to get people to change their views. Some people are more flexible than others. And if they're asking questions for those reasons, they'll probably be pretty resistant to different opinions.

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  32. sinathamby - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by sinathamby Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:40AM

    Immature and that is all.

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  33. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 12:46AM

    Ah!!!!!!!!! Thats the perfect word!!! ;) Thanks

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  34. nerdbabe102 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by nerdbabe102 Dec 29th, 2012 at 12:52AM

    Idk, ask your friend with the death penalty case since that's basically what he just did.

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  35. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Dec 29th, 2012 at 10:04AM

    You serious? I never block unless I'm blocked first, I would rather have a knock down drag out fight then block........At least I'd respect you more.....And besides, what Friend...? as you can Imagine I have few....Most people here are hard left wingers......No "Friends" of mine.

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  36. nerdbabe102 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by nerdbabe102 Dec 29th, 2012 at 12:28PM

    I just assumed, because you guys were on the same side. But yeah, he either blocked me or deleted the question to avoid answering me lol

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  37. huntressartemis - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by huntressartemis Nov 26th, 2012 at 4:55PM

    I read your response.
    if you get through the snark, (which there isn't much of),
    you offer a very clear explanation and fact-check.

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  38. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 5:01PM

    Thanks......Sometimes I can be that way....We all can...but I saw no reason to "block"....Appreciate your comment....That's for responding....;)

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  39. Frenel - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Frenel Nov 26th, 2012 at 1:48AM

    I think sometimes when a person posts something it's a belief. It's a statement that, right or wrong, really is part of their identity. If someone disagrees with them, they could see it as attack on them personally. Speaking for myself, I don't care if someone disagrees or even criticizes me, as long as that criticism is constructive.

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  40. TheBeautyWithin - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by TheBeautyWithin Nov 26th, 2012 at 1:23AM

    That is to be expected from someone who is wrong and does not have anything left to say to back up their statment. I don't get it either. People should not make a post about something if know they will offended by oppisition. Notl matter the situation, there will always be someone who will not agree. And if they have not figured that out by now, then they are going to have a real tough time.

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  41. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Nov 26th, 2012 at 1:46AM

    @ Beauty - Exactly....you'd think he'd just say, "Oh, thanks!" Correct too you can block here...But in real life what is he going to do? Quit every school or job? Leave whenever someone points out the flaw? Weakness...Very weak...Thanks for responding! Nice to see you again!

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