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How should I confront a guy on what his intentions are? Hes so confusing and I need to kno if im wasting my time or not

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  1. BabzEsq24 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by BabzEsq24 Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:14AM

    Why MUST you confront him? You are 17? Can't you just hang out?

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  2. AmandaPand4 - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by AmandaPand4 Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:20AM

    because...i dont wanna waste my feelings on a guy that doesnt want a relationship i wanna move on if he doesnt want anything serious... but right now idk if he does or not so idk if itd be wrong of me to start talking to other guys

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  3. RitzRebel - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by RitzRebel Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:14AM

    ME too!

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  4. Unlearn - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Unlearn Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:08AM

    To know a wolf think like a wolf.

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  5. BabzEsq24 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by BabzEsq24 Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:21AM

    HIL-AR-I-OUS

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  6. toistory - 41-45 years old

    Posted by toistory Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:08AM

    This is so the wrong forum for that ideology. Dial direct quit wasting your precious time here. Handle your business!

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  7. AmandaPand4 - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by AmandaPand4 Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:17AM

    I dont want to send the wrong message or sound mean asking

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  8. Sewatha - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Sewatha Jan 13th, 2012 at 10:25AM

    you answered your own question. Tell him he is so confusing and you need to know if your are wasting your time with him.

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  9. ecpc - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by ecpc Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:16AM

    Theres several options..Ask it straight up "What are your intentions?"
    Or pull away a bit and see what he does next....Or ask someone in between.
    Or forget about intentions and just hang out when you want to without any expectations.
    Or just give it more time without devoting much effort at all in that direction.
    Or ask for it in writing if they might be a bit manipulative ,which could be done via text message etc..

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  10. AmandaPand4 - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by AmandaPand4 Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:23AM

    ive tried pulling away before and he doesnt do much except text me but then again i havent really puled away that much cuz its hard for me to do that when i like someone. i couldnt just hangout with him without knowing if he has felings for me or not bc then my feelings would grow stronger and its make me even more confused and i dont wanna be "talking" to other guys if he does want somethigns serious with me. i think imma confront him of his intentions and pull away dramatically and see wat happens and if he puts any effort

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  11. amanalone - 66-70 years old - male

    Posted by amanalone Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:16AM

    MAKE SURE HE USES THE SAME LANGUAGE AND UNDERSTANDS THE LANGUAGE YOU ARE USING!
    THEN SAY
    "WHAT ARE YOUR INTENTIONS TOWARDS ME AND WHAT DO YOU WANT TO HAPPEN"
    EASY REALLY ISN'T IT?

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  12. AmandaPand4 - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by AmandaPand4 Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:20AM

    okay thanks

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  13. Wallygator64 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Wallygator64 Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:11AM

    Good conversation.Sit him down away from other people and talk......ask the hard questions.

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  14. AmandaPand4 - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by AmandaPand4 Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:19AM

    but we wont see each other this weekend so It has to be over text

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  15. justkoz - 61-65 years old

    Posted by justkoz Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:09AM

    It sounds like he won't answer you if you ask him. I would say that if you can make some trouble for him and see if he is strong enough to deal with it then he might be okay.
    Play a trick on him and see if he can handle a little curve in life.

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  16. AmandaPand4 - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by AmandaPand4 Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:18AM

    yes! because he is the type to avoid any serious question. like he will joke around or change the subject or not answer at all and then text me "whats up?" later. Wat kinda trouble are u talking about?

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  17. michelle5156 - 51-55 years old

    Posted by michelle5156 Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:09AM

    ask him straight about he's intentions x

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  18. AmandaPand4 - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by AmandaPand4 Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:17AM

    wat do i say tho? like i dont wanna sound mean or anything or annoyed i just want to sound serious and get an answer

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  19. michelle5156 - 51-55 years old

    Reply by michelle5156 Jan 13th, 2012 at 9:22AM

    just tell him you like him alot and would like to no if he feels the same way and can you both go to the next leval x

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