If you had your locks re-keyed, in your heart you know this relationship is over. Start looking for someone that won't make you the butt of their jokes and amusements.
Also, why won't he erase this? That was a very reasonable request. It sure looks like his amusement is more important than your feelings.
your doing well with the locks changed, now just break up with him completly
Tell them to turn over the recording or you will go to the authorities. Time for a new BF.
From my picture in my mind I dont think I would really make a real big deal out of it, Now if he had got a video of me in the nude or some real private moment then I would get made and make a big deal out of it, one day you and him could sit back and watch it and keep the laughter a live with you both.
Okay I can understand then so this makes a different if you and his family has had differencies.
Okay I see clearer now, yep that was bad he really did it all to be mean and embarrass you in front of his people< Oh okay I would make him see it all to, dump him let it be a lesson to him, oh and by the way how long has you both been together?
Okay I see, most men are immature minds we female minds are way more mature than a male you should have heard about that piece of s***t I had in my life was very immature my 6 year old grandbaby was mature than he was, true true
Omlord ....stop OVERREACTING ...for goodness sakes
Yep I did do that and right today he want to be back with me but NOT, so I wish the best for you and I do understand what you are feeling now
Leave! Thats disturbing in many ways.! Good for changing the locks! What a loser A hole! Not funny at all I wish you carried a pocket knife and stabbed the dad and then seen how much they would love to keep that video! You deserve better. Good luck!
That is cruel, he took it too far. As a woman I am fearful of somthing similar to that happening to me somday so it would for sure be terrifying. If he is not mature enough to know when to apologize for taking it too far he is not boyfriend material. I would not break up with him until you somehow secure the video.
if he's a keeper, then he'll be very sorry sometime soon - i once 'pranked' a girl in elementary school by putting a maggot in her shirt and thinking of it now, i feel so eternally sorry that i could almost cry
it's your call maybe keep up the distrust of him even if you do . make it a pain for him to get anywhere because you Obviously don't trust him. till he learns how much he scared you. You expect him to protect you but this made you feel he might run if confronted by a true assault. I suspect his dad too enjoyed your trama too at least helped set it up if . maybe even gave him the plan. Think about it I'm not good at thisone but how long are you going to be scared they might do it again?
Chances are you had a few clues you ignored before....... This crosses anybody's line. Tell him the only video he should save is you leaving.
I think you're over reacting. Yes, this joke was distasteful. I think he thought it was really funny and that as soon as you got over it you would laugh it off. I have plenty videos of my boyfriend doing embarrassing things that he begs me to erase but I keep them because I think he's adorable. You are being an over drama queen. Let it go. You just want validation that your response was an appropriate one. It wasn't. Re keying your door was completely irrational. I feel bad for your boyfriend.
No, it doesn't. Your response was incredibly dramatic. People on this site tell you things you want to hear. You wanted to hear that you were completely valid. It's not like you have any reason to be afraid of him. The video he has was of you being scared. People play distasteful pranks all the time, and as soon as he realizes how distasteful his was then he'll apologize. My boyfriend has a video of me coming back from the dentist after having my wisdom teeth pulled which is the most embarrassing video of me to date. I understand why he keeps it, though I want it gone. When people have senses of humor this is what they do. I understand breaking up with him, because it's absolutely obvious you need to date someone with a stick up their *** and he needs to date someone much more easy going. However, unless he physically threatened you than you're just being a dramatic *****. It's not like he pretended to break into your house. He pretended there was a burglar in his.
Apologize. you mean Apologize. After your reaction I strongly doubt he would. Besides, he'll probably dump you soon anyway. If my boyfriend was this pissy about anything I'd dump him in a heartbeat.
Blame not only the BF but the whole family. Apparently, they hit a nerve of your fears, to the point of removing yourself from your BF. If you cannot forgive and forget that you do have a serious problem that you should look into. Apparently you cannot trust adults and laugh this one off. I wonder how many similar fears that you are hiding for another BF.
Please forgive them for your fears.
Well that's just about the rudest ***** out.
Why are you even with him? It's one thing to play a prank that you found just plain mean and NOT even apologise for it, but it's another for the whole family of ***** to do it. That SHOWS just what you're dealing with here if they won't delete the film. You could DEFINITELY do so much better than that.
For some people being on the receiving end of a prank like that is no big deal but for others is is a big deal. For you is is and your BF should have been tuned into that before he did it. The fact that you have rekeyed your door tells me that you have already made up you mind and you are looking to validate the decision and I agree that life is too short to put up with bad behavior. Listen to that voice that made you change the locks
If I played a prank that did not go well, I would do everything to make it right. Since your BF is not doing that, you need to re-evaluate the relationship. Maybe you will remember other times that didn't register at the time but will make sense with your new perspective.