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He insisted I should have asked for his permission while he never allowed me to go in four years of marriage whenever I asked for permission?
jeeney jeeney 31-35, F 12 Answers Feb 21 in Dating & Relationships

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WTF?? Your husband must have come out of the dark ages, just beyond the time when men pulled the women around by their hair and painted themselves blue! No doubt about it your in an abusive relationship. You need to leave this guy and divorce him quick! Else your lining yourself up for more trouble down the line.

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Get away, get a divorce, and get the police involved if necessary. Threats of violence like that are never acceptable, and it is NOT his place to tell you where you can and cannot go, EVER.

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He says no decent woman would do that his sis n xyz alwayssss ask or inform husbands where they go.....

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It is a terrible double standard. You are an adult human, you can go where you please, when you please. (Unless it's a military base or something, I wouldn't recommend that ;) )

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Time for you to leave.

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Last time I need permission to do something is when I was a child. You're not helping yourself by letting him do this to you.

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He is not your keeper ?? Permission ?? PUHLEEZE - file your papers or don't... but leave him, now

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Should have

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It is called domestic violence. Get professional help.

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Your husband is a sociopath. Seduce him, invite him to a hot bath and while you are soaking cut his manhood off.

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"I spit on your grave" style, nice!

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Lol..

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Till than?

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Well am not a physco only depressed

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Okay that really happened, this very patient woman just got tired one day and she did that. However, even though I would personally want to take revenge like that for men who hv hurt me and changed me I cant really do that. All I can suggest is you get away from him and stay away. People dont change. My experience tells me that men lie to get you back but they show their true colours again. So get a divorce and stay away from him if you like your life.

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I know wat u saying is true every word of it.i need to record wat he does till the deadline to show it to my parents and kids in future and remind me always that I was right.

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Be very careful if you really mean it, the recording bit that is. It will prove to be very useful as evidence of the torture you are going through. Never let someone treat you like that.

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Also, till this deadline do not retaliate.

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I did it earlier once unitentionally and got caught and hence more abuse....I have to be smarter

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That's exactly what I am talking about. If you get caught more abuse will follow. Be extra careful, if you have a friend who can help share this with her, it makes these things easier when you have someone to support you..

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Wen we hope for things go better it get worse and wen we r about to give up and waiting for the worst to happen things slightly improve...am one of those ppl who r caught up in this cycle

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You are in control of your life. Stop feeling like this.. I am telling you this from experience because I have been through something similar. I would be so happy one day and think my life is changing for the better and the next day something happens and I find myself crying like somebody played a cruel joke on me. The only way to deal with this is to never be too comfortable, just remember that life is unpredictable and cruel. When you feel like things are getting better and you feel happy just enjoy that moment. And never let your happiness be controlled by someone else..

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was your friend male or female?

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A female whoz kid is my kids frnd and she bring kid over my place to play ....he has issues wid everything I dont know what to do ....I want to kick him v hard

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stand your ground!!! or kick him!! hahaha

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Divorcey Divorcey

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U r too young

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I came from a home of domestic violence. Feel free to stay around and get treated like a doormat. The first step is to isolate you from your friends so you feel alone and can't tell anyone anything. Have fun love. Seems super mature to allow someone to treat you like that.

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Wat would u do if you were me?

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First step is talking openly saying you are your person, you will see your friends when you want and be in control of your own life. If he disagrees, he's not worth keeping and in the end will only cause pain and heart ache.

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I have a kid its not easy to walk out....after years of isolation I made few frnds and Dared him

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Did it

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Get in your car and drive as far away as possible and start fresh.

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