How should I respond to a guy who is really confusing?
school has been going for over a month now and things seem to be going well. I met this one guy who's in 3 of my classes and he's one of the few guys i know that i talk to the most. he has a very nice personality, doesn't swear that i've ever heard, and is a lot more mature than most of the guys in my school. He has never really dated as far as i know and takes some teasing about it. one reason could be he's not much for looks and second could be dating doesnt seem like a top priority for him. we share several common interests like music and so forth; he's a wonderful pianist and i love listening to him play and he's in our choir and has a great bass voice. he sits in front of me in our last class and we talk the most then. the thing is, he is rather confusing. there are some days when he wants to talk and other days when he seems to be avoiding me, then wants to talk again. sometimes i'll say hi and smile and he'll barely respond and other times when he will. Other times he will come over by me and talk and other times when he'll come over and not say a word. he seems a bit shy and that could be why; maybe he doesn't know how to respond without seeming awkward. Im not the flirty type and being forward with guys isn't my thing, but I am willing to go out of my comfort zone a little and put myself out there. so anyhow any suggestions are welcomed.