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How the do i get over someone i want so badly but can't EVER have and have to see him everyday."move on" doesn't work:(

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  1. fxckup - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by fxckup Sep 24th, 2012 at 5:40AM

    Start noticing all his bad qualities and continuously remind yourself of them when he's around. Is there any way you can avoid seeing him? change jobs/move/ whatever it is that makes you have to see him every day?

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  2. RobSedona - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by RobSedona Sep 24th, 2012 at 5:33AM

    Live a Life of "Miss or reeeeeee" or move on Forget about if you can not have it so find something else. Or just Love being UNHAPPY FOREVER its you life live it the way you want to. You do not have to see him every day you could even move to a new town so many things to chouse in life you are not as of yet stuck anywhere so do it your way!

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  3. TrustIsEarned - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by TrustIsEarned Sep 24th, 2012 at 5:28AM

    Look for flaws. Seriously. Stop looking at this man with goo-goo eyes. Really look at his flaws and focus on things you typically dislike about people. Realize that part of the feelings you have are based on an illusion you have about him, and not really on the reality of him. Look beyond those things that you find charming or endearing and really look at the reasons you won't be with him. Sometimes, it takes really facing that reality to recognize that he wasn't the best person for you at all. Once you realize that he wasn't a good match for you, those intense feelings will subside.

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  4. makeitwork1 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by makeitwork1 Sep 24th, 2012 at 6:00AM

    are you sure they will subside? that is what i'm doing EVERYDAY. Looking at his flaws, he has soo many, and soo little to really like. He is NOT a person that would ever find attractive, i mean as a person. But yet, i can't stop wanting him

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  5. TrustIsEarned - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by TrustIsEarned Sep 24th, 2012 at 6:05AM

    It will subside. Think it through. Is it HIM you want, or to just not be alone? Would you really WANT to be with someone who didn't shine in your eyes? If you can see his flaws, but still feel attracted, perhaps you're subconsciously wanting someone not worth your time. That's a matter for introspection. There are plenty of guys out there that don't have the complications this dude has.

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  6. RobotsHaveSouls - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by RobotsHaveSouls Sep 24th, 2012 at 5:26AM

    Oh man, sister, i think i know how it feels. What exactly is your situation?

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  7. makeitwork1 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by makeitwork1 Sep 24th, 2012 at 6:09AM

    Someone i love, have never loved anyone else, he doesn't want me. I could never tell him how i feel, ever! Only if he tells me first. i would pour out my heart. I see him everyday..

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  8. RobotsHaveSouls - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by RobotsHaveSouls Sep 24th, 2012 at 6:19AM

    Why can't you tell him?

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