going through same thing right at this moment, thought he cared but doesnt give a rats ***, we finished 3 months ago im still in pain but hang in there, im starting to have moments of ok. still crying but realize, I cant make him love me. Tough but wasting time on him wont change the outcome. take as long as you want to go thru this, one thing that has helped me, i started jogging, (im over 40 and smoke,) ive lost 5kg and pound the pavement screaming how much he hurt me.. Remember,you are curling in a ball devastated at home while he is out there trawling for his next bit, or shagging a new one as we speak. Your not alone... Im right where you are.
This is the best time to take care of you. Go to a day spa and indulge. I understand it hurts, since I have been there three years ago.<br />
Once you realize your better off without him, the healing process begins.<br />
You will become a stronger and healthier person.<br />
Be your own boss in addition, make your own rules. There is someone better of deserving of your love then one who makes you feel bad.<br />
Thank boo your story reminded me I'm not alone. I'm glad you are strong also. I just didn't expect this from him. I know any man can do it but I never did anything to deserve this. If he wanted to end things we could have ended it on good terms but he just walked away and change his number. I loved him very much. I'm strong and you are too. I'm be okay but I am really hurt. When someone hurts you when you love them it makes it harder for the next good guy. I take this as life lessons
I don't know how old you are, but your heart is going to need time to heal. Take it one day at a time. Keep a journal and write down your emotions. Eventually you will move on, remember that when one door closes there are many more to open. Hugs.
yeah. no matter how bad it hurts, you should really move on. don't put anymore effort into thinking about him. it will just weigh on you. sorry...<br />
I agree thanks
You might have to move on. Couples frequently accuse the other of cheating when it's them that is cheating. I'd date others. When you find the right one you will be swept off your feet. When this "love" thing hits you will know it. That was the way for me anyways.
Suround yourself with friends and meet new people. Listen to lots of music and most of all except the fact that you both were not ment to be. Its always painful to let go but in this world of so many broken relationships its going to happen. let go so you can heal and be free to find someone else when you are ready.
That was very crappy of him to do. I am so sorry. :(
It fine I'm hurt right now but I won't be forever
What you want is not always whats best for you. Staying away from everyone will just keep you in your thoughts of the past and in a depression. Please stay strong as hard as it seems and force yourself to move past this. You have a good heart thats simply broken right now.
That is the first step in getting better is knowing where your at now is not forever! You will find a guy someday that you will love even more and never ever leave you.
He sounds like a complete waste of time and energy. Too many people are it seems, these days. Hope you find someone better next time.
he is an a-hole...a smelly dirty one with old poop stains on it. Some guys are just to full of themselves. Stop calling him and stuff. I know how much it hurts because i went through a break up with a similar kind of a sorry excuse of a guy. <br />
Remember this, you are more important and you deserve to be happy. Whatever reason he may have had that did not give him the excuse to be an as$ to you. And he is messed up not you. He walked out because you hurt his tiny little ego by saying if you dont stand with me i will find someone who is willing too...which is true...and that ****** his head up and he wanted to feel that he had the upper hand in the relationship so he walked out. He can go take a hike you know. <br />
Keep yourself busy for a while, this will prevent you from thinking about him till the time you have processed the hurt you have gone through and you'll meet new people. Make a conscious effort to be happy. Go out with friends have a good time. Try out a new hobby or something. If a guy asks you out go out with him keep things light and simple. Enjoy stuff.... *hugs and kisses!*
i know...take your time...but be happy doing whatever..
if you want to vent out then you can PM me...
It you spend more of your time fighting for a relationship than enjoying it, it's time to move on. The sooner you do that, the closer you are to a better one
It's the cowardly way to go about it, that's for sure. But now you know you're better off
I feel for ya. No easy answers. Best I can say is do whatever it takes to find another thought pattern to occupy your mind