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How to take people lightly? like things they say or do that are hurtful or insensitive..?

i tend to get hurt easily and when these people are my friends or roommates its hard to confront (coz of fights), or ignore (coz theyre in my face always). how to ignore them??
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Posted Sep 19th, 2009 at 3:31AM
unfortunately I have been known to be insensitive to people, I don't mean to but
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Posted Sep 19th, 2009 at 3:34AM
Think about the people it's coming from and then just LAUGH,
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Posted Sep 19th, 2009 at 3:41AM
I know this very well to master controlling stage people cant hurt me only i receive their ills and then thank them for sharing what they are and realize its not what happens to me that hurts its my own internal choice to interpret it in a way in which i dont want
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Posted Sep 19th, 2009 at 3:57AM
I strive to see thier point of view, no matter if I agree with it or not, there is some smidgen of truth to thier statement. But if they are really beligerant and just trying to be hurtful, I just began to feel sorry for them that they can not express themselves in a better way and have to try and lower others to make themselves feel better.
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Posted Sep 19th, 2009 at 5:03AM
DON'T IGNORE IT. Call people on their bullshit!

If you put the welcome mat out on your face, it will get stepped on. I guarantee it.
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Posted Sep 19th, 2009 at 7:30AM
Laugh at them, then tell them to **** off.
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