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How to ask a guy to cuddle with me without him thinking I like him?

I don't really like the guy. I do like him in a friendly kinda way, maybe a little bit more. But it's an insignificant crush. I just wanna cuddle and I know he'd do it but I don't want him to think I like him.

I'm in a new place, don't know a lot of people, kinda lonely, he's my only guy friend at the moment. I don't think I like him. It's the loneliness, I think.

OK people. I got it! Don't do it cause I'd HURT the guy. As if he cares. I'm pretty sure he'll get over it in a day. Just like any other guys. But thanks for the opinions, anyway. Cheers.

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"hi(insert name)can you cuddle me?-just as friends-i just need a cuddle".He can either say yes or no.

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Other 16 Answers to How to ask a guy to cuddle with me without him thinking I like him?

ELFINSONG	Posted Jun 18th, 2009 at 3:09AM Why would you want to cuddle with someone you don't like? Rated: +8Vote for this!
Cowmaster	Posted Jun 18th, 2009 at 2:15AM There's no way. Once you touch a guy...game over..he likes you. Rated: +3Vote for this!
anonymous912	Posted Jun 18th, 2009 at 1:58AM Just dont be offended if he gets a ***** Rated: +3Vote for this!
Fourandahalfdays	Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 10:53PM I would automatically think someone liked me if they asked me to do this. I think anyone would. Rated: +2Vote for this!
jp5040	Posted Jun 18th, 2009 at 1:59AM You like him! Admit it! Own your actions. Sit on his lap and cuddle! Rated: +2Vote for this!
pixelita	Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 11:14PM I don't cuddle with guys I don't like and I don't think you do either. I think you have some feelings for him :-) Rated: +2Vote for this!
Joyce777	Posted Jun 18th, 2009 at 4:09AM I think you would be leading the guy on to do this. Do not play with people just to appease yourself for the moment. "Cuddling" is an act of affection. Rated: +2Vote for this!
mayo1	Posted Jun 18th, 2009 at 12:45AM you can be sure that he ll want more if he agrees to cuddle, if you tell him its not serious or if you dont tell him doesnt make a difference there but telling him you got no deep feelings ur just a lil needy is at least honest ... he ll follow you like a poodle afterwards anyway ,you have to deal with that Rated: +1Vote for this!
LeighLeigh	Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 10:44PM You can't. Anyone, male or female, is gonna think you like them if you ask them to cuddle. But the big question is...do you like him? And if you do...why not tell him? Rated: +1Vote for this!
mtvlm	Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 10:53PM Hey were guys any move to cuddle or snuggle we think that you like us, so don't tease unless you want to be in return. Rated: +1Vote for this!
LizardKing	Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 11:59PM Most people aren't that open, especially guys. If you want to cuddle with him he will probably assume that you like him. Rated: +1Vote for this!
woodinhouse	Posted Jun 18th, 2009 at 12:16AM why would you want to cuddle with someone who your not sure if you like him? it will lead to wrong impressions and hurt feelings Rated: +1Vote for this!
Konrad	Posted Jun 18th, 2009 at 12:22AM This is why I hated the whole high school dating scene. Too much complicated bullshit. Just say how you feel and send out clear signals. Rated: +1Vote for this!
phedokitty	Posted Jun 18th, 2009 at 12:28AM just cuddle!:) Rated: +1Vote for this!
2nice	Posted Jun 18th, 2009 at 1:40AM Unless you want something more, you'd be using him. If he's a friend, preserve the friendship and save your neediness for someone you want to be intimate with. Rated: +1Vote for this!
SuperRobotMonkeyT eam	Posted Jun 18th, 2009 at 3:13AM Just say "give me a hug" after an appropraite convo (like he says something nice or gives you something) and hug him... GOD its not that hard and no everybody just cause you hug someone doesnt mean you like them or they like you Rated: +1Vote for this!

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