Break up. Duh.
Do what I do. Scare the living **** out of him in some outlandish fashion. I had a boyfriend who would try to embarrass me in front of people by yelling at me, calling me names, insulting my family, etc. So one time when he did that in front of my schoolmates, I gave him a kick in the balls and spat on him. We never did talk much after that...
._. Leave him
You need to find a way out. That verbal abuse will eventually lead to something more serious. Especially if he's alienating you from your family.
say two words...JOHN BOBITT"
You don't deal with it.
It's easy. . you leave. .. He is not going to change so either leave or get used to it
sounds like a classic form of domestic violence to which im sorry you are going through this currently, ultimately leaving your partner is one of the few ways to end the abuse though do so carefully in order to not increase the abuse
There is only one way to deal with abuse. remove yourself from it.
Kick him to the curb You don't need that sort of shite! :) Good luck either way.
Punch him in the mouth and tell him to go watch the movie Bambi again to hear what Thumper had to say!
What you do is, get evidence that he verbally abuses you...text message or a voicemail...then when he threatens you to take her, you can show the judge how he would abuse you. Trust me, either way, even without evidence you would be the victim.