Why would you participate such a dishonest, pointless lie? Virginity is grossly overrated and is an absurd notion left-over from an oppressive time in history (or backwards religious dogma). Entertaining insecurities and so-called purity further perpetuates primitive behavior.
because she probably doesn't want to get stoned to death...OR shamed and divorced immediately. something to that effect....
Sounds like an equally bad reason, but you are probably correct.
Why would you want to? You're going to start off a marriage with a lie?
Phooey to that! If it was that important to you, you would not have lost it, right? On a more helpful note, women who are virgins don't necessarily bleed. My virginity was "taken" so to speak by a gynaecological examination. It hurt like hell and I did not bleed.
You could get that hymen surgery if you've got the extra cash laying around...although I wouldn't recommend it because it is very destructive to your lady parts.
how much sex have you had? If you only did it one time, I would not worry about it. You will still need to figure out a way to get the blood on the bed, but being tight shouldn't be a problem. If you have been having sex like crazy kegals help and you can stuff a tampon up there so he thinks your walls are smaller.
i think guys now are aware that not bleeding during 1st intercourse does not mean a girl is not a virgin anymore, the hymen is very thin and can easily tear in some women when biking or horse back riding as others have mentioned. i think it's more of the tightness and it's hard to fake this one because guys can feel it unless you undergo vaginal tightening, which is very painful mind you. just be honest, it would save you from a lot of trouble.
oh my goodness<br />
ummmm, wow.. ummm work on your kegels<br />
plan your marriage on your cycle date <br />
so you are you know... <br />
I would not do that. Start your marriage with honesty. You'll be glad you did.
"Hey babe, I've never asked, but, are you a virgin?"<br />
"Yes. Yes I am". <br />
It's that easy.
pretend you have no idea what's going on
If virginity matters so much to where you two would break up if you weren't a virgin, then I say it's not worth getting married to him/her.
Lemon and a fake blood pill...
Say you havent done sex before. Duh.
you rode your bike a lot .....