you can never fix any man.........he is what he is. You will have to keep communicating with him and find a compromise...
You should communicate, ask him what he likes and you should observe what topics open him up. <br />
Go on candle light dinners, go walking to a park, go to movies. You need to spend more time with each other. When you get close you will know what you each other like.
What kind of communication? Girls stuff? How was your day conversation ? Some men are not for small talk especially if complex thinkers.
You cant FIX anyone, you can sit down and talk with them and let them know how you feel and try to find out why he doesnt want to talk. My husband was like that because that was how he was raised. He was raised that a real man keeps everything inside. Is your husband a VET, most of them keep things inside. Find a place that is neutral to both of you and dont talk at him be sure and talk to him and let him know that you want to be their for him. Be patient it can take time. Be sure that when he does talk about anything no matter how small that you really listen and care. If you dont he will shut down again.
Give him head?!?
my friends mum asked how her husbands day was for a month without fail everyday though it varied from out right asking "Hi how was your day at work?" to hints to open conversations "my day was a bit quiet today what about you?" <br />
then after the month was up she stopped asking and a few days later he started talking to her with out and prompt. She only did it for a month as he was too non communicative so i think it varies how long you should ask for depending on how long it takes the man to get used to routines. Hope it helps :P
No, hon, men are not for chit chat like your mom, sister, or BFF. Men communicate by saying what we mean and if you aren't listening you miss it. (Most women don't listen and may not even know how to listen). You cannot "fix" a man.
If it's that important, marry a communicative one the next time. <br />
He is who he is. Either you're in love with who he is or you aren't. When married partners start trying to train each other to be the person they WISH they had met, marriages end.
Start communicating with his (male) friends.He'll wake up real quick.
Thats never a good thing in a realtionship. But just be there for him. Keep reminding him that you love him. Maybe treat him to a meal or o something nice for him and then tell him how your feeling. Good luck, :)