Talk to him about your needs
who wants to 'make love' good gals wanna go to pound town....
You have no hope. You want control over his brain and you will never get it. Your relationships will be horrid until you can figure that out.
Obviously not. I'm saying find a guy you don't have to mind control to have sex with them. You appear to want to mind control this one though and that pretty much guarantees you won't find the solution. Your current though process loans itself to getting used by shallow men.
If there is no emotion tell him he can get that for a fee in the red light district.. Then move ON.
You cant make him understand what love is, =( Find someone who you can tell will, just by looking in your eyes. ...WHERE are you?! =(
Honey, if he's not into you then you're not going to have an emotional commitment.
Be nice all the time not just when you want something.
I don't think its anything you can influence hun, either he shows emotions or not
Just be happy that he's attracted to you. It will mellow into what you want over time. Try establishing a mood.. with music, lighting.
Erase those mental movies you your self had made of 'what it was suppose to be like'.