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How to get your boyfriend to realize that it's not only all about himself?

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    sumnerkagan - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by sumnerkagan Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:53PM

    How to get girls to realize that boys like this aren't worth their time?

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  1. fakeola - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by fakeola Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:58PM

    Ditto.

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  2. Kat47 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by Kat47 Dec 30th, 2012 at 4:00PM

    How to get girls to realize that they only get worse over time...you can't change them...

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18 Answers to "How to get your boyfriend to realize that it's not only all about himself?"

  1. Thekidsmom - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Thekidsmom Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:54PM

    Get a new boyfriend.

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  2. secret81 - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by secret81 Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:58PM

    agreed 100%

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  3. SimonLaStrange - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by SimonLaStrange Dec 30th, 2012 at 5:09PM

    If I was you I would listen to josephine8 she is a genius

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  4. DarkSoulsShallBeMineRIP - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by DarkSoulsShallBeMineRIP Dec 30th, 2012 at 5:00PM

    Tell him your tired of him, being self consumed with himself and you would like him to show more love towards you .

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  5. bijouxbroussard - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by bijouxbroussard Dec 30th, 2012 at 4:48PM

    Might not be something he can be taught. As the previous poster said, YOU might have to be the one who comes to the realisation that this isn't the right guy.

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  6. waterdragon541 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by waterdragon541 Dec 30th, 2012 at 4:21PM

    I told mine that if he wants to act single than that's what he'll be but if he wants to be in a relationship or partnership together than that's what we'll be; either way you cannot have it both ways. So decide and stop wasting my time. If he doesn't smarten up move on; I don't think anyone wants to babysit their partner truly, how can you respect them when they are acting so small?

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  7. LilAnnie - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by LilAnnie Dec 30th, 2012 at 4:03PM

    Knowing that your options extend beyond him might keep him on his toes or turn him into a possessive maniac. So tread carefully.

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  8. crazychica369 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by crazychica369 Dec 30th, 2012 at 4:02PM

    Dump his ***! Then maybe he will realize what he had.

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  9. nimmygrace - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by nimmygrace Dec 30th, 2012 at 4:00PM

    Give him a lot of space and act that you don't care about the relationship anymore.. Keep yourself busy with new hobbies and never let him feel that u miss him.. Make him feel that u're great all by yourself and he is of not so much importance. Trust me , he will do anything to make you feel that it's not just you, but us (you and him).. lolz.. This works..!

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  10. GwydionFrost - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by GwydionFrost Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:59PM

    Read the featured story on my profile, "The Four Elements". It's all about the essentials required in ANY successful relationship. Measure your relationship up to it, and see where your REAL problems lie in the relationship, whether you should have the relationship, and what it would need to be saved-- because if you are feeling like this now, I guarantee that the feeling is only going to get stronger and stronger over time. I'd appreciate any feedback on it, as well...

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  11. marialas - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by marialas Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:58PM

    Well, it's not about me either. Shouldn't it be about the two?

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  12. expo67 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by expo67 Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:57PM

    Maybe by dumping him, but there are some people male and female who will never, ever realize that.

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  13. leumasb - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by leumasb Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:55PM

    Be the example.

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  14. ILoveAGirlInStockings - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by ILoveAGirlInStockings Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:55PM

    Teach him that you're important and teach him that you matter and tell him how you want to be treated. This can be done in all aspects of your relationship.

    I'm guessing you mean sexually. This applies here as well. It's not all about him pleasure.

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  15. guessjeans - 51-55 years old

    Posted by guessjeans Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:54PM

    you can't change a man's point of view, move on you're only wasting your time

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  16. jessL94 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by jessL94 Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:54PM

    I'd tell him, well if it's all about you then I guess you can go back to your momma's house.

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  17. NHub - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by NHub Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:53PM

    Context would help the answer.

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  18. TheOneyouwerewarnedabout - 70+ years old

    Posted by TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:52PM

    tell him, not us?... oO

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  19. Lex2013 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Lex2013 Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:56PM

    I have told him, more than once.

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  20. TheOneyouwerewarnedabout - 70+ years old

    Reply by TheOneyouwerewarnedabout Dec 30th, 2012 at 3:56PM

    sounds like a keeper?....

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