Since you made the first move, it should be up to him to move it to a committed relationship. Hinting is fine. The reality is that 2 months is not very long. Both of you are still on your best behavior. When you go to restaurant, is he nice to the waiter? If no, he won't be nice to you after you get past the best-behavior stage. <br />
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Protectiveness and jealousy are two different animals. Many women fail to see the significant distinction. Protectiveness is a trait which says he will defend you. Jealousy is a sign of a poor ego. A jealous man is a dangerous man. If he is jealous two months into the relationship, it is a red flag. <br />
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You are clearly in the infatuated phase of the relationship. During this time, a women's logic and self preservation instincts tend to go off line because falling in love creates specific hormonal changes in her body that shut down those portions of the brain. Take your time. Be patient. If it is meant to become a committed relationship, it will.<br />
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Good luck.

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thank you. jealousy may be the wrong word. he has shown more than indifference..... He is nice to waiters and his friends as well as my friends.

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Glad to hear that. I hope he is a keeper and things work out.

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Time will tell. Don't rush it too much.

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**** him. that's what the west do (is this racism? idk. i just get this impression from their tv shows). oh wait that's not right. they already have sex on the 1st date. trololololol...<br />
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but seriously, there's a thin line between a mutual understanding (that stage where you do sweet stuff during dating) and being in a committed relationship. and that is saying that acknowledging to yourselves that you're together. without that plus if you continue dating, one of these days, someone will misunderstand and be friend-zoned BECAUSE NOBODY ASKED THE OTHER if you're together or not.<br />
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idk. dating is somewhat like friendship but going into that personal level. the 1st step is always letting the other party know that you have feelings for him. hope this helps. :)

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he knows I have feelings and I know he has feelings for me. We know we are "single" and can do as we like but hope the other doesn't date others, and such. we hold the expectations of a bf/gf but lack the commitment...

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acknowledging to yourselves, that you are together is the 1st step towards commitment. i mean one should ask it how your relationship will go. talk it over in a serious conversation. redundant? but you get what i mean.

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They will never defeat the panda!

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