See an attorney, make a plan, go.

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yup- irr diff- but her Q is interesting-it's how to continue living with him while no longer liking him- seems it was perhaps a marriage of convenience no longer convenient

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They may ask you to go to counseling if your husband contests it...but if you still feel the same then you usually have to be legally separated for a certain amount of time before they grant you a divorce.

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What jurisdication? In most USA states Irr Diff is recognized and the mandatory 1 year separation has been abolished

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Thank you for answering. I can't divorce because of the kids.

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Here is some unvarnished truth for you- your kids know what's goin on. They feel the anger and "dislike" between you. They are on nerves waiting for it to fall apart. You are doing them no favors

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Thanks for the BA- We are only as miserable as we allow ourselves to be

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just treat him like a roomate, and go on with your life, seems to work for some.

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Thanks for answering. Yes, we've been like roomates. No sex,no talk.

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TRY to remember why you married him and the good times might replace the negatives about him. No one is perfect - not even you.

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Why do you not like him? Boredom can happen to anyone for a number of reasons but there's always a reason.

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Thanks for answering. The tiny things that I ignored have piled up. Even the way he talks just irks me.

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Doomed is the fate of your children and what kind of parent would be to allow your child not to see a life filled with hope and love. I would rather be dead and damned in the worst of hell wrath that any religion might condemn my soul than let my children think this is a marriage.<br />
There is more to life than physical love and sex, or security for god's sake...I think a savior once said <br />
"Suffer the little children unto me" a bible story that illustrates that their happiness and hope is worth everything than destroying it. Leave.

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Thanks for answering. I can't leave because the children might suffer. I want them to have both parents together.

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bring a new man in the picture and see if he minds....he might like it

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Thanks but I don't even want to make him jealous. I wish he has girlfriends.

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Wear a cartoon mask until he leaves.

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