Hmm...the best thing for you to do in this situation would be to cut all contact. Responding to him will only make him think he still has a chance, no matter WHAT you say. So what I would do is to gently tell him that you think the two of you should stop talking for awhile, so that he has a chance to get over you. Tell him that, as long as he keeps begging you to come back, you won't respond to any of his messages or calls anymore. Then it's just a matter of sticking to your decision.

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tnx . huhaii :( hope he will stop if i'll do that bit you he always goes to my house:(

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Don't answer the door?

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You are being too nice. Too nice equals door mat. You can be nice and not be a door mat. Cut off communications. End of story.

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but he always goes to my house :(

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Get a restraining order. Nothing says "Get Lost," like one of those.

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You cannot control his behavior, and your happiness should Not depend On whether he asks you back or stops. <br />
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The Only thing you can control is your actions, Just because he asks you out, does NOT mean you have to even respond One way or the other. Just because he asks, does Not mean you have to go... or even explain why you said No... Only thing you owe him is a response of " no" followed by no reasons...<br />
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You need to tell him." No, I will Not go with you on your birthday, we have broken up." and stick to your guns. This week it's a birthday, next week it's something else. and the next it will be something else, and when he feels you wanting to pull away, he will try and make you feel pity for him. But His Unwillingness to accept that you have left him, is NOT your problem, it is his.<br />
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When a Horse got a broken leg, they used to shoot them so the animal would Not suffer. No prolonged pain.<br />
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You need to end this cleanly and completely. " he has a problem, but it is NOT your problem, it is his. Now you can decide to make it your problem.... by feeding into his needs to amke yourself feel better about How good and sweet and kind you are being to him. But deep down... you;re Not being good to either of you. You prolong his suffering. Time has come to shoot this horse. * hands you the rifle."

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yes i'm doing it now but he is always going to my house :(

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Don't take him back and don't tell him anything. You are broken up 'again' for a reason. What you do now or who you see is your business, not his.

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yeah i know! thanks:(

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Move on. and block him. If he hasn't got it by now by being nice, you have to change your tactics. It sucks, but some people have trouble letting go and have to be forced. Do not reply to anything he sends, if he calls do not answer.

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i will do that. thanks. :(

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good. It's hard, but has to be done. Good for you!

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yes i did that but he went to my house.

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After 10 yrs, i had a baby to someone else. This worked

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hope i can :)

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Diretsahin mo? hehe

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ginawa cu na pue ewan cu sa kansi!

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layuan mo muna. hehe

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Stop being so awesome.

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i did!

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1 word: Silence

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Stop answering.

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