normal is unusual these days.
Not very. Most people compare themselves to what they believe is "normal" and so they believe that they are unusual in what they think and do. Actually, normal is a mathematical statistical concept that was never meant to apply to a particular individual so, no one is normal. And most people go out of their way to hide anything odd or unusual in their lives which also adds to the myth that "everyone is 'normal' except me."
I think it's relative.
Whatever is out of the Norm for you.
When everything you do is drastic in an odd way